Okay major rant: Biggest freaking thing annoying the shit out of me is my mothers incapability to…
Okay major rant:
Biggest freaking thing annoying the shit out of me is my mothers incapability to even speak clearly when she takes her meds. Like i have to ask her what she said at least once but usually more. She can hardly keep her damn eyes open she cant speak clearly or loud enough for me to understand. She lets her dog do whatever the fuck it wants. The kitten she saved is a girl and my male cat will not stop trying to mate with it so he is being a huge pain in the ass. She keeps asking me if Im okay. How I feel. Any contractions. Are we going to the doctor today. A million questions a damn day. My brother is still fucking here. Sitting around asking to drink our alcohol, acting suspicious cant even leave him alone without thinking he is getting into something he shouldn't. Im extremely bitchy and i know everybody can see it. But Im seriously going to explode. My mumbling, drugged up mother, my untrustworthy brother, up in my business 24/7 dealing with all these things I wouldn't normally have to worry about. I know if my mom doesn't take her medicine she will be hurting blah blah and I know if I send my brother home ill look like shit keeping him away from spending time with my mom but I seriously am about to loose my shit.
keyshla mateo·
Мама дочки-младенца
No to intrude ,but is she drinking that's what causing her slurring or is it something else ?
Netta Wuensch·
I know this seems dumb to ask but why won't you tell them to leave.
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Do you go with her to dr dose sounds like it's to much he her might want to mention it to him
Netta Wuensch·
I've learned to tell people no and if I don't like something I speak my mind. Your very vulnerable right now you don't need the added stress. Do you mind me asking why are they there?
Athenia·
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@mommysbabies she lives in ohio I live in Kansas. She is visiting. She has multiple meds she takes. Its obvious why she isn't granted custody of my youngest brother she can hardly stay awake longer than two hours. She gets the meds because she claims she needs them but seriously if you cant even function what is the point.
Athenia·
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@ninaberrygood15 my mom is here to be with me through labor. My brother is here because he wants to be around my mom.
Netta Wuensch·
@newmommyathenia, oh okay well you sound like your miserable. What does your guy say about it? It sounds like she's more of a stressor than a helper. Why can't you tell her how you feel? Boundaries are a good thing.
Athenia·
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@vanessagarcia I know I feel bad for being upset about it but its sad :/
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
I went through something similar in high school it took my mom getting pulled over and me moving out for her to finally realize that the meds were to much for her she finally got a machine in her back so she could cut down on meds and it's really helped our relationship I hope the same happens for you