I need alot of advice im 36 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child my 1st child is a boy and he is 2. His…
I need alot of advice im 36 weeks pregnant with my 2nd child my 1st child is a boy and he is 2. His dad just went to jail and might be going to prison because he pushed me down and hit me in the face twice our son was asleep im our bedroom he woke up screaming so i ran to our room from the loving room and grabbed him and said its ok and his dad grabbed a gun and said hes going to kill his self and shot the gun twice in our bathroom i grabbed our son and ran to his room and shut the door he grabbed my phone and saw i texted my mom to call 911 and he told me if the cops show up he was going to kill all 3 of us so i was panicking and told him to take me to the hospital he said i was ok but i wasnt when he walked me amd our son out to the car the police showed up and searched the house and took me to the hospital and took him to jail. This has been so hard for me im about to have his other child thats a girl and idk what to do no one is helping me i have been trying to get shelter assistance and conceling help everything is on a waiting list for months or years my son usually asks for his dad but he hasnt asked for him at all hes tramatized by it all. My son isnt eating or sleeping well and neither am i. Idk what to do ive just been crying constantly and i dont want to be around anyone.
Tiffany·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Oh honey, I can't even imagine what you are going through! My mom went through some crazy stuff like that with my Dad... so I've been where your child is... the fear is real... but I've not been where you are! I'll be praying for you, there are many women on here who have over come some pretty incredible things! I know it's all really scary and unbelievable right now... but jut stick close to your family... try to find a local church that does things like grief counseling and see if you can find resources that are maybe not so 'well known'... stuck close to your family, and just let yourself grieve... because even though everyone is still alive... you have all just experienced some very serious losses! I don't have answers for you... but I do know how to listen if you ever feel like there is no one there... I will be only a message away! Lots of love Momma, to you and your little ones!
deleted-user·
Call your insurance and see what they offer for help. Also call 211 and see what they can do for you
Buddhist Mama·
You guys need some counseling. Your child could have ptsd and develop other things like night terrors etc. I would file for divorce asap and ask for full custody. This is NOT A TYPE OF MAN YOU NEED TO BE WITH. He sounds like he needs mental health assistance too. Get yourself a restraining order and stay away from him. Do not stay just because he's your baby daddy and its easy to stay. Even though you're going thru a tough time just have faith that it will work out. Even if you're homeless with your baby while pregnant its still better than living with a psycho and nothing is forever. This is a temporary rock bottom that you have just hit. But things get better when you don't stop trying!