Whew... wow... bet ur busy. I couldn't even imagine, no nap time. Mine just does a fake cough, but its obviously fake. Guess maybe take him in bathroom with u or shower when he goes down for the nigh. If the dad doesn't already, he might just need to play with him more.
@cbrebelkat, yeah well I leave him with his dad so I can shower and clean but then he does this thing where it sounds like he's choking and the minute he can see me, he stops and smiles. It's like he does in on purpose because he knows Ill go get him.