@goodjourney, I will definitely pray about it.

@savana_h, thanks. I'll look into it.

I don't know if you are religious but pray for him. Prayer works miracles

Trying to make a man do something like that is impossible most of the times. I just say pray that things get better. My husband never wanted to go to counseling, and the more i pushed the more he pushed back. I just stopped trying to force him and I focused on things I could do to make things better. I'm not sure what your beliefs are, but there is a book called "The power of a Praying wife" I think you should read it. Even if you guys aren't married yet, I really think it could help. It helped me a lot, especially when I was ready to give up