Yal my bd can't say shit else bout anybody being sorry and lazy and he must realize that no other…

What are you with him for?

Some men are no as good as being a dad bc it's not in their DNA. They have to be taught. Females are made to be nurturing and caring for their babies. Men are made to go out in hunt n provide. They have to literally be taught how to care for babies. My hubby would feed n watch the kids but he would let them mess up the house as long as they are safe. He would feed the baby but would (I learned) let her diaper get full b4 he would change it. But when I come home she is safe n happy n made the biggest mess that I have to clean but she is ok. You may need to explain to him how to change her feed her then put her in a safe place so he can go back to sleep

My husbands the same way. Hell dead ass sit there watching TV while I'm sleeping and hear our son screaming and be like "babe wake up Owens awake" and I'm like "SO WHY TF AM I AWAKE GO TAKE CARE OF HIM" and he's like "you got it" like that sentence right there is gonna be his last sentence someday lol

@beebaby, girrrrrlll - it don't even feel like we really together we jus goin thru the motions

@saniyyahhasan, our son is almost two-what ima teach him to do and not do ?? See your man do more than mine-he barely ever kept him I always had him or my relatives or his people -he always had an excuse or found something to do !! I'm not raising no grown man -that's his momma job

@owenjacesmama, exactly!!! Very last words !!!

@amichelle2 what I'm trying to say is that your not raising him but teaching him how to care for his child. My hubby is my only "sitter" right now. My parents would but heck I have to pay them or do them a favor in return n at time they renig at the last minute n my sister moved far away from us now. So n I don't have anyone that I trust enough to do the job. I had to teach hubby how to atleast change her he won't even put her on the potty like she needs to be he would just change her pull up. Curtain things men are not made to do n caring for kids are not one them they are made to go out n hunt n provide n protect. Not to be caring. My hubby have too many other kids to not know some basics though lol

And you're having another with him?? No judgement my daughters dad wasn't shit and I hit the highway away from his sorry ass too my husband takes care of her

Im so sorry y'all have these problems