A little annoyed, my MIL'S birthday is today and she decided that since she planned my baby shower…

Hell no .. That's messed up ... She need to stop wanting your babu shower attention lol

No you're not over reacting. I am a recovering alcoholic and I wanted to put "No Alcohol" on the invites because my husbands uncle and aunt bring booze with them everywhere they go and I just didn't want to be around it. Well we ended up leaving that off because we didn't want to seem rude or like we were singling them out (it would have been obvious who it was put there for) long story short they ended up bringing margarita stuff and got everyone drunk right off the bat. I was pissed. But I chose to ignore them drinking and made the best of the day which is all you can really do some times.

Hell no your not I'd be so pissed off it's your day!

@ilovemychildren @nessairieray @rola exactly!! I am super upset especially cause I know she's going to be getting everyone wasted and 3 of 4 of the drinks being served are alcoholic like she didn't stop to think if I wanted to drink anything other than water or juice. And I know if I say anything his family is going to attack me and call me ungrateful. 😒 It just really sucks cause I was looking forward to this party but now i'm over this whole weekend.

I would be fucking pissed. I would cancel the baby shower and not even show up. Fuck that and fuck them, seriously.

Sorry, don't mean to offend towards family, but that got me heated...

@babyboy1117 no worries that is exactly how I am feeling. If I hadn't already invited all of my family and friends I would just stay home and sleep. My best friend said we can ditch the party and go to the beach since she wants all of the attention to be about her and they live right down the street from the beach.

I wanted to tell her something but I don't feel like being bitched at and starting shit.

@debdeb1

It's like my filter has completely disappeared since I got pregnant lol I used to be so damn nice to everyone, even people who treated me like crap, but now if someone does something to cross me I go from 0-100 in like negative 10 seconds. The beach sounds like a good plan, they'll probably be too drunk to notice anyways 🙄 I'd go have a mini party with whichever friends and family are actually there for me and the baby while "the children" enjoy their play time.

@babyboy1117 it's funny cause I used to be the exact opposite, if something upset me before I got pregnant I would just tell them right out and if there was a problem be like "fight me" but now I just stay quiet. I don't see the point anymore it's not like I can fight them lmao. But yes I'm just gonna go to the beach and say fuckem. If they ask what's wrong or say anything I'll probably tell them off and leave.