So I was in Foster Care since I was 6 I found my birth mom when I was 18. After 10 years of no contact. When I found her it was nothing but stress from the start. She threatened my adoptive family, made death threats, put me down for loving my family, the list goes on. So 2 years ago I told her to NEVER contact me or my family again. Last night she liked my pictures on Facebook and since I don't have her as a friend on there. It took me by surprise as I looked at her page I found she had stolen pictures of my son & was posting them on her page and saying "it's her chance to be mommy again". I was shaking mad. I sent her a message & blocked her any current biological family I have on my Facebook were blocked as well. I'm so shaking mad. But I had a friend tell me how wrong I am for doing what I did and give her a chance. But I don't need to after all the turmoil she caused. Am I in the wrong?
@ravens_mommy, I doubt it cause then she'd just like my stuff off the fake account not her real one that I'm not friends with & I deleted everyone that was biological family & any mutual friends & blocked them to. I went to unblock her & she has already blocked me after the message I sent her . & she shouldn't be able to & im confused
@mommyrai Could someone be sending her the pictures? Like the 2 mutual friends? Or could she be a friend with you through a fake profile? Because if your stuff is private she shouldn't be able to see it.
Me and my mother don't have a good relationship either. She abandoned me at birth basically and gave me to my grandparents. Just dumped me off like I was nothing so she could go do drugs and live that life. She would come around every now and then just enough to get my hopes up that she loved me enough to stay. But she never did. And I ended up with a lot of psychological issues because of how she ran in and out of my life. I got to the point a couple years ago where I had to tell her to fuck off and never talk to me again. That she isn't my mother and doesn't deserve to be in my life or my children's for that matter. No regrets. She is an evil human being who has stolen from me and my grandparents. She's a user and wants pity when in reality she's an addict and a loser. So trust me I know how you're feeling right now. My "mom" tried to contact me every now and then on facebook and by coming by my grandparents house but I've since moved and changed my number and deleted my facebook so she doesn't bother me now. Just block her so she can't steal your pictures. You're right she doesn't deserve to have any pictures of your son.
@ravens_mommy, I will do the unblocking idea. As for my page it is private. I did it right after I cut her out 2 years ago. Which is what took me by surprise
Hell nah I would be pissed too. If I were you I would unblock her and report the pictures so they are no longer on her page. I would also set it so that only your friends can see what you post.
My brother's ex wife likes to steal pictures of their daughter and post them like she has actually been in her life when she really hasn't seen or spoke to her in like 5 years. Wants to act like she isn't a drugged out POS mother.
You're not in the wrong for doing what you believe is best for you and your family. No one should tell you anything about it, you gave her a chance & she obviously blew it with you. You have EVERY right to say whose around you and your son. Don't feel guilty! And if it helps any, I would be flipping out on someone who was posting pictures of my child without permission too!