I don't ask my husband to help in the house I just ask him to keep the kids entertained while I clean😁 but he does help so much inside and outside the house lol but if I could only convince him to milk our goat lol🤔
@elizabethq481 honestly I believe it because it what we were told and taught for years that women handle the kids, the house and keeping husband happy and men only work. It became a traditional thing that many mother's before us followed the other half wasn't going lol if marriage should be an equal thing then the parenting and handling the household should be equal also. We are supposed to treat each other as partners and not maids. Many men's fail to see that they are treating their partner as maids. The women who are defensive to this topic is because they believe what they have been taught.
She does....... my oldest son and my daughter can butcher rabbits by themselves..... and my oldest son(6) can butcher a pig by himself(not kill it......i don't want him shooting that big Of a gun by himself)
@jasthorpe413, @elizabethq481, my husband does help out too when I'm cleaning or he cleans our bedroom and makes the bed but the kitchen is off limits lol I have OCD 😂😂😂
@nessairieray i feel you there i have ocd about my dish washer lol my husband tries to load it but i always go back and rearrange it..... but i love that he helps........i kinda feel bad for going behind him and fixing it but it bugs me if I don't
Cleaning up after himself, yes. I believe if the mom isnt working, she needs to do the house chores. If she is overwhelmed with things, he needs to pitch in.
Yes, he should help. He should want to help. My husband works and sometimes has to do overtime, he is selfless and always helping other people so I try not to ask him for help. I only ask when I am completely exhausted or it's been an extremely overwhelming day. I think husband's should help because if the roles were reversed I would still help.
Keora Willis·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
Yes
Elizabeth ·
Мама троих детей
@vannahjam14, @deafmama16, why do y'all think some women , get so defensive when ever they are told man are SUPPOSED to help around the house too ?
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)
No they aren't lol I won't let my husband lift one plate
Elizabeth ·
Мама троих детей
@nessairieray, why is that ? Of course if you don't mind me asking . :)
Jasmine Thorpe ·
I don't ask my husband to help in the house I just ask him to keep the kids entertained while I clean😁 but he does help so much inside and outside the house lol but if I could only convince him to milk our goat lol🤔
Keora Willis·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
@elizabethq481 honestly I believe it because it what we were told and taught for years that women handle the kids, the house and keeping husband happy and men only work. It became a traditional thing that many mother's before us followed the other half wasn't going lol if marriage should be an equal thing then the parenting and handling the household should be equal also. We are supposed to treat each other as partners and not maids. Many men's fail to see that they are treating their partner as maids. The women who are defensive to this topic is because they believe what they have been taught.
Elizabeth ·
Мама троих детей
@jasthorpe413, lol milkkkk the goat honey ! Fabulous I love it , it's awesome that he helps out with the kids ! That's a big HELP . Yassss !
Jasmine Thorpe ·
Lol yeah we live on a farm my 4 yr old daughter has a butchering tutu
Elizabeth ·
Мама троих детей
@deafmama16, I love love your answer ! Equal rights YAS ma'am .
Elizabeth ·
Мама троих детей
@jasthorpe413, I bet she loves the farm .
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)
@elizabethq481, I was raised that way that if the man works he's providing for our family than I should hold it down in the house 😊
Jasmine Thorpe ·
She does....... my oldest son and my daughter can butcher rabbits by themselves..... and my oldest son(6) can butcher a pig by himself(not kill it......i don't want him shooting that big Of a gun by himself)
Elizabeth ·
Мама троих детей
@nessairieray, and it's something to respect we are all raised a different way . ❤️
Jasmine Thorpe ·
@nessairieray my mom was a single parent and made sure that i knew a woman could do just as much as a man(If not better than some men lol)
Elizabeth ·
Мама троих детей
@jasthorpe413, oh wow ! I've always wanted to live in the country ! So adorable and cute your kids .
Jasmine Thorpe ·
@elizabethq481 thanks 🙄
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)
@jasthorpe413, @elizabethq481, my husband does help out too when I'm cleaning or he cleans our bedroom and makes the bed but the kitchen is off limits lol I have OCD 😂😂😂
Jasmine Thorpe ·
@nessairieray i feel you there i have ocd about my dish washer lol my husband tries to load it but i always go back and rearrange it..... but i love that he helps........i kinda feel bad for going behind him and fixing it but it bugs me if I don't
Elizabeth ·
Мама троих детей
@nessairieray, it's the thought that counts right ?
Danielle Armstrong·
Мама дочки-младенца
Hells yeah!!! He lives there too so he can help
Elizabeth ·
Мама троих детей
@kkmamax2, love it that there is man out there that are changing the future generation .
Starsnstripes·
Мама сына-младенца
Cleaning up after himself, yes. I believe if the mom isnt working, she needs to do the house chores. If she is overwhelmed with things, he needs to pitch in.
Des·
Yes, he should help. He should want to help. My husband works and sometimes has to do overtime, he is selfless and always helping other people so I try not to ask him for help. I only ask when I am completely exhausted or it's been an extremely overwhelming day. I think husband's should help because if the roles were reversed I would still help.