people think having a baby/kids is aww , it's so cute! just that little new born that sleeps and is…

people think having a baby/kids is aww , it's so cute! just that little new born that sleeps and is a good baby because I was, little do they know everything they come with like, takes about an hour to get out/get ready so you can sometimes be 'too late' for appointments, like when they get ill all they want is cuddles, when they get colic/reflux the amount of washing you have to do meaning you go threw all them clothes, all that time you have to take up, all the crying never knowing what's wrong with that baby, because crying is all they can do to say 'I want this I want that', and you don't know if that's a nappy change, feeding, burping, not well, sore throat, sore body can be ANYTHING, the stress that causes you and the fights you have with your partner , is for life, the depression you developed after giving birth and in reality it sometimes doesn't go!, or when that toddler is having a tantrom in the local supermarket because she/he wanted some chocolate just after having some! or when they kick off for anything and people judge! so before you say parenting is easy, and is just awww all cute, please realise what that mother or father has to go threw! 😍😞