Any moms on here who's baby dad is not in the picture looking to give some advice? Thanks! Btw my parents are very supportive and I am lucky to have them!
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My daughters father isn't in her life she is gonna be 4 on Monday and it doesn't really seem to bother her she is doing just fine without him , you will find someone who loves u and that baby more then themselves , I was a single mom for 2 in a half years then I met my husband and he treats her as if she was his and we currently have a baby boy on the way. Being a single mom is hard but manageable you can do it mama. Keep your head up and stay posotive
@ytadaneli94, same here. He begged and begged for me to get an abortion and I just am not for that. Ever since that decision he wants nothing to do with me BUT once the baby is here he says we can have convo about child only and he wants "his part" and harped on me about if I'd take him for child support. As much as I would love my child to have that father figure I'm scared he will come and go as he pleases which to me would be worse then no father at all. Plus he lives 1 hour 1/2 away from me. He has no car no lisence he can't hold a job. He now has a gf. I also have GD and I told him like you aren't even being here for me during pregnancy so how am I supposed to know you're gonna be here when the baby is born and he says he don't have to be here for me in order to be here for baby... uh helloooo? Your baby is in me! Ugh sorry for the long vent but damn this boy makes me mad.
Yeah ... mine walked out on me when he found out I was pregnant.
Mine weak baby father don't even know his child is born
Sounds like you'd be better off not allowing him anything to do with your child... I have a friend who decided early on her sperm donor was not father material... he got another girl pregnant a couple months after her... the other girl allowed him to be in her child's life... he was arrested for cooking meth... the other girls child was in the house for 'visitation' when he was busted, the mother supposedly had no idea, the child was put in foster care and she had to fight like hell to get her kid back... my friend was SO thankful she never sought paternity or support! While this guy was in prison, he tried to force visitation with her son so he could earn time off his sentence... she had to go to court and make sure his rights were terminated... then her now husband, adopted her oldest son! It was CRAZY! I'm SO glad she went with her gut instinct!