You know how In those mommy groups women will post about their significant other asking for advice…

Don't worry momma try not stress but I know it's easier said then done, maybe go see what housing you can get from your local government or whatever help you may need. Maybe he is doing it because he knows you have no where else to go, and the only thing you can do it complain.

@alishaoneal.ao, it just scares me cause his last gf was also a live in gf, and she stuck around for almost a year after it was over, but the weird thing is, neither of them broke it off. They just stopped talking as much, okay basically they became like he is right now. No attention and no affection and talking only when necessary. And they didn't have any kids. I'm pregnant with our second. He's been distant for months. I tried so hard to be understanding, since his grandmother died in march this year, and he's never had to deal with something like that. But it's to the point where I'm just fed up. I know people grieve in different ways, but completely ignoring and avoiding me while I take care of your toddler and am pregnant with a new one, like why?!?! Why treat me this way?! I'm doing what I can to look into things. But I just don't want him finding out. I have no idea how he will react. He may not care, he may be upset, or he may be angry. And tbh, I don't wanna see him angry about this. ):

@beebaby, oh I've tried. But even a cook in the kitchen of a daycare requires some level of college. ):

Literally my life, I've felt so trapped this entire pregnancy, all I do is stress and worry about what how I'm going to take care of my baby because I know he won't

@gabriellerene, it sucks so bad. I can't get a job cause no baby sister for my 3 yr old and certainly no money to get one. This bastard got an AMAZING job making what I make in two weeks at a great paying job, in just a week. I told him we need to make small purchases here and there for the baby so that we aren't having to spend $500 at once. He agrees and even tells me to get some stuff ready on Amazon. It was cheap as hell, maybe $70 for like 4 or 5 things. And we have yet to buy anything. He's about to get paid on the 15th so here's hoping he wises up. If he doesn't I have no choice but to threaten to leave. I refuse to stick around being cast aside like nothing, and his mother hating me for not doing anything around the house (the one day I cleaned I puked many times and became horribly dehydrated) or getting a job, but won't help me with my toddler. It's just so frustrating.

@beebaby, yup. It's so stupid. Like background checks and drug tests and all that are totally understandable. I'd pass with flying colors. But why exactly do I need a college education to make your kid lunch every day? 😒

You can get free child care in the state of Georgia. There is also housing and other services to get you out on your own as well.

@andrea.herrington, I've tried that many times in the past. Have applied so many times over and over. Never got accepted. ):

Dang, my friend used it while we were in college for her son. I know some of the programs can be harder to get into than others. If you had a child support order it would be easier to get accepted.

@brianne, luckily I was able to work up until last week but it's still not enough to cover all the bills when I'm on maternity leave and he hasn't had a steady job the entire time I've been pregnant like you know you have a baby on the way but somehow you can find money to drink all the time but not buy your daughter a single thing and we live with his parents too and I get so pissed because I have my half saved up for us to move out but he doesn't have a dime not to mention the $5,500 he owes me, and I'm literally going insane living here all his family does is fight and argue about everything and talk shit about me not contributing around the house and not wanting to be around them when I always clean up after myself I just don't see why it would be my job to clean up after them because they're complete slobs

@brianne, but I would definitely recommend you go on Care.com and try to find a family needing childcare because a lot of families will allow you to bring your kid to work, I was a nanny for almost a year and my boss was so nice and understanding and always told me if i needed to bring my baby to work then i could as long as her child was still taken care of

@gabriellerene, I have a very slight back up plan, even though it's crazy. Lol. But it's something. Just need my SO to actually start buying shit for this kid.

@brianne, I've thought about asking my dad if I can come live with him but he lives in Florida and I'm kinda scared to ask cause I doubt he'll say yes

@gabriellerene, I know what you mean. ):