@nury_rodriguez_2010, I understand that. I have really high standards for what I want my kids to be able to do. We currently go on 3 vacations a year and some are international. I want my kids to be able to see what's out there and be able to provide for them in every way.

@kellikrystne, yeah it is not impossible it's a blessing but also it's work on managing time and attention

Start now with him...the sooner the better...especially when training a boy...... Start now so you not rushinh him to learn when he's three

@mberjuste5, yes fingers crossed! I may need some advice on starting that too.

Yeah by three he should be potty trained too. ..that will help out alot too

@mberjuste5, thank you so much! If we wait a year then my son will be 3 by the time the baby would come and I'm hoping by then he will be a little more independent. He gets very upset right now if he sees me holding a baby lol.

Its nice with them being close in age...espeically if the first is old enough to eat on their own and walk and talk a little too etc...they can be a big help with caring for younger siblings..... My 5yr girl helps me alot with the 2yr and 1yr

I say wait a year..... My two oldest are two years apart.....not much.....my last two are a year apart and them two drive me crazy lol...being so close in age they are like twins.. .hes going tk be two in dec...and shes going to be three in Oct soon....

@beebaby, everyone's different.

Not impossible.

Mine are both boys and a month shy of being seven years apart!! If I have another one it won't be seven years apart!!! Yeah my seven year old helps but for me personally it's been difficult giving both the attention they need. And it's really affected my oldest! *sighs* it's all when you think you are ready! But i definitely won't have them so far apart again lol

@nury_rodriguez_2010, @beebaby, thanks so much! Our son is only 16 months right now and we wanted to wait at least another year before trying just because he's still young. Some days I'm excited and other days I feel like it will be impossible with two kids.

Multiple children are difficult but you find a schedule and make it work.

3 years apart and I love it. It is perfect. Nothing is easier

I have 2 kiddos! They are about 4 years apart not quite but only by 3 months!! It's not easy but it is doable. I like the age difference due to my 4 yo is a bit more independent and can do things without my help (in some things) and also she can help with him.. but the attention that is needed for both kids is what is hard to sort out! Just make sure you take out time to give attention to both!! What I catch myself doing is putting her on hold to tend to the baby... due to me breastfeeding or changing a diaper or whatever it may be at the time.. one thing that is priceless is to see them interact and play!! And just have that sibling ❤️