Maybe its just me or maybe I'm over reacting but it really bothers me and gets under my skin when my…

My mom has maked that mistake but im still pregnant and shes used to saying mom to me so when she talks to my belly she makes the mistake some times. So do you think its intentional or out of habbit?

And as far as talking over you or repeating you i would just look at her and say hey.. I got it. Then its not being rude but still letting her know that you are the disciplinary first and formost. You.

@ashtonndamon I honestly dont know. She doesn't refer to herself as mom when she talks about her sons, she says I am their mother. She hasn't done it in awhile but since I got kinda snappy yesterday at her she said it today. My little boy was throwing a fit and acting like he was gonna hit at me and that is unacceptable so I put him in time-out well no more than 3 minutes passes she looks over at him and says, "come to mawmaw baby." I told her no that he needs to sit there for a few more minutes that I dont want him babied when he does something bad, and all she could do was look at me.

@ashtonndamon I agree there. I just dont want to come off as rude, she lives with us now and has never been off on her own so I don't want to hurt her feelings. She will be the one to watch him while I have this baby because Justin will have to work and he can't get off in time. I just dont want her to get him confused on what to call her, and I absolutely don't want her to let him run wild while in in the hospital.

@savanna_garcia good. Yea honestly. I would be a savage and say something. Like um No i put him in time out he cant get out until I say so. But in the same sentance i would say and when you put him in time out you can say when he gets out. Just because you dont want him thinking that he can go to one person to get out of punishment.

@ashtonndamon exactly. But she just looked at me. I want him to grow up and understand that just because she is his grandmother doesn't mean she will get him out of trouble. Justin works a lot so he is hardly hear when she does it and when he is here lol he isn't paying any attention to her. I dont have a problem with her living with us, my problem is her trying to take a role of a mother to my children. Maybe its just my hormones but it still gets me pretty angry. I could understand if she is trying to make up for the things she done when her kids were younger and she is just trying to make things right though her grandkids but there's a limit on how much she can do without stepping on my toes.

I would discuss it with yous SO and see if together you guys can find a way to bring it up to her in the nicest way possible.

@ashtonndamon He will just tell her how it is lol he doesn't care how it comes out. This will be the secomd time she has lived with us. Where on the other hand I care, after all it is his mother and I don't want to be disrespectful.

If he doesnt care then it must not effect her like you think it will. My thought process is that he grew up with her. He knows her best. Let him tell her. Then your not being disrespectful to her. Hes just being real. Its different coming from your kid than their SO

@ashtonndamon true. I guess I'm just a softy when it comes stuff like that. Haha. Where like I said justin doesn't have a problem at all telling her what he thinks.

Maybe they just have that type of relationship.

@ashtonndamon he isn't so much family orientated. He could go weeks/months even without speaking to them. Haha but no matter how hard he tries that wont happen. His father and brother live next door now and his mom got out of a bad relationship and came to justin crying because she was homeless and needed a place to stay so she could get a job. Its not so much as a close relationship but more he is just very open and strong opinionated. 😂