So I have to rant for a minute, say you picked out a name, your going through fertility issue and…
So I have to rant for a minute, say you picked out a name, your going through fertility issue and your family member like real close family member decides they want to change he their entire name legally BUT there's a catch you notice the name on their Facebook and the first name happens to be the name you pick for your future child if you have one, how would you react or what would you feel?

cr131418·
My sister did that to me. We were both pregnant at the same time and were talking baby names. She didn't know a girl name but had Keegan as a boy. N I didn't know the genders so I said a girl Kyhlie and boy Will Jr.. well after she had her she named her daughter Kylie.. I was pissed beyond belief but I ended up having two boys so it didn't matter. I was extremely hurt by it and esp because I was dead set on it and I thought I was having a girl.. but I learned to accept it and moved on. No sense on holding a grudge over a name tbh. Same with me not being able to name my sons middle name Anthony because of my hubby sister was knocked up by a dude with that name. I still will be upset about it because I was dead set on that. That was the only name I picked it of both of my sons' names. But I love his middle name now and don't know anyone with it.. the best way to look at it is that you get to come up with an even better name than that one. Or a more Meaningful name.
Amber W Johnson·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)
That's messed up, out of all the names in the world they could have picked a different one knowing its so special to you. I would be pissed!!