Thank u. Its ok love. Everything happens for a reason

@goodjourney, thats horrible. Im sorry you went through that

@kfermin4138 i agree. Not even like i was a bad kid. When i grew up she told me she was jealous of me. I swore that woman straight hated me.

@goodjourney, omg that must have been horrible for you. Ive seen and know women who cant stand their partners kids, but i don't understand why. You cant love a man and not love his kids, they are part of him. At least thats the way i feel about that.

@kfermin4138 yea it was definitely hard and i didnt have a mom. I had a wicked step mother and she was like "your gonna bleed every month". That was her explanation. Im like ok....why. Lol. I didnt wanna tell teachers thata the reaaon y i asked to go to the bathroom so much was because i needed to change. So often i bled myself. It was bad girl. Lol

@missjess, true. Ive explained it to my daughter since i began noticing her body change. But she is so into games and technology that she forgot all about it until it happened yesterday.

@goodjourney, oh wow, that is crazy, how did you cope with that. Because not all 8 year olds will understand what they are going through even if mom explains it😱😱

You can get it anywhere from as young as 8-16. I'm just glad my mom told me about it so I had a heads up. I was 13 though so some of my friends had gotten there's before me. But I worried about this issue with living with my ex and he has daughters 8 and 9 and there mother hasn't told them what it is yet and I'm like oh great they will get it and I'd have to try to explain lol.

I was 8 when i got mine. I wished it waited til i was 11

@morgan021218, lol i bet you did.

Mine came before 11....yeah time go by fast....i hope my girls dont get it at 8 to 10......i rather them be in middle school to have a topic on that....

I got mine when I was 12 and I was devastated. I wanted a couple more years lol

@kfermin4138 I know what you mean.... I'm really close with my niece she's like my daughter and I'm like NO STOP GROWING 😭 lol.... she's getting her boobs and I can't handle it lol

@lovinmommy51, or the food, my neighbors daughter got it at the age of 8, i knew the day would come but i was still terrified cause my baby is not such a baby no more.

@sherrynygirl, i know, i got mine at 14. Its so crazy how girls now are getting it at such young age