😤😡... my mom is seriously pushing the issues of having all these damn family members down here! I…

Just tell the hospital that no visitors allow. Take a deep breath mama @dreamermom

Just ignore the negativity. Like eff them they can think what they want in my opinion. As long as they aren't there I wouldn't even care

Just turn off your phone @deafmama16, her problem is they all want to stay at her house while she is in hospital

@mommysbabies what?! That ridiculous!!! They need to stay in a hotel or camp outside

You don't have to anyone there try talking to your hubby im sure he'll back you up too

@ecahanes, @chelli, @mommysbabies, @deafmama16, thank you! My husband is at work, and is so pissed about all of this, I swear he's going to hulk out and smash something... he's trying to be my level head, but when I'm about to deliver he gets really aggressive/protective of me... I had to keep him from making angry phone calls... so I decided to start calling all these people that are suppose to be coming and told them myself that my BP is super high today, and I don't need this added stress... I love them and appreciate that they want to meet my new baby, but I don't want them here until after the baby comes, and we get home a settled for a few days... so far, everyone seems to be totally understanding... which tells me that this is all about my mom and HER anxieties... it's like she's pushing to have people here so that she has 'support'! 😤🙄 well this is one time in my life where it's not all about her! She is just going to have to figure this out on her own! (I'm normally her rock, have been since I was a child... and it's like I'm suppose to be comforting her about me getting induced! 🙄🤦‍♀️) sometimes I wish I had a normal mother/daughter relationship where she was the adult, and I could lean on her for support! 🙄😓 I really wish my Dad was still alive, he was the only one (other than my husband) that I could lean on! 😢

I'm so sorry you going through this I hope she can understand

@dreamermom as long they are understanding that's good now for your mom she needs to learn on her own. Maybe since your father passing she been lonely. Try having a decent conversation face to face and let her know how you feel. Stay calm ok?

@deafmama16, yeah, I've tried that... it's like talking to a wall... I feel like calling everyone else so they know what I want has proven to be the best solution! My BP even dropped quite a bit after this last conversation! So that's good!

I would explain to your mom how your feeling.

Glad everyone understands just try and relax she needs to realize you and babies health is the most important thing my mom and I have had a tough relationship luckily it was caused by her pain meds since she has been off them it has helped my inbox is always open if you need an ear to vent no judgement I'm here