I'm getting so so sad now, why is my 2 year old keep hurting her baby brother, and no 'child…

Just kids love she don't really understand just keep the punishment up she'll soon give up xx

I hope so, I've actually been In tears today because it's making me really sad haven to keep telling her off and keep hurting a baby that can't do anything:( xx

It's kids Hun I have 4 boys and my 3 little ones always hurt each other I now let them get on with it and they soon stop cxx

it's not fair though my little one is only 9 weeks and can't fight back so it isn't even like they hurt each other he just lies there tryna go to sleep or all happy and full of smiles til she goes over and thinks she can just hit him, bite him or scratch him it's shocking:( n it's getting me really sad xxx

Keep up the punishment when she hurts the baby and don't back down, also try to get her involved with the baby as much as you can wether it's her helping you feed him or change his bum like get a nappy etc, even when it comes to playtime or so she could maybe show the baby her favourite toy or something, reward charts help too and whenever she's doing something good or being nice to the baby praise her and make a big deal about it xx

One of my friends had a huge problem with this with her 3 she had twins as her second and they took a lot of time as expected with twins and the eldest used to do exactly the same so she used to do the usual punishments like naughty step and the rest but then made a day a week exclusively for the eldest and asked hubby and friends to look after the twins for an hour and after a few weeks she said it was bliss... dunno if that would help in your case but i read it and thought it might :) xx

Also maybe have some one on one mummy and daughter time when your son is having a nap something special that only you two share wether it's reading books or baking cupcakes xx

I've done all this you's have said, theys honestly not much more I can do, she helps with him every bottle every nappy, I've tried star chart , naughty step she just pulls off my wallpaper :(!, she couldn't be jealous as tbf other than feeding when she's around she gets all my attention or atleast most of what others would, seriously I've been in tears as I've tried every single little thing I could nd she's still the way she is but id rather she was just supperrrrr naughty for me than hurting him it's horrible to see :( xx

All you can do is stick at it Hun it will get better just don't back down it can take couple of weeks but she'll get used to it xx