Rant.. My SO has two child 2 and 4 years old. Bio mom has been in and out of their life since the…
Rant.. My SO has two child 2 and 4 years old. Bio mom has been in and out of their life since the youngest was 5 months old. I have been raising these kids as my own and I love with all my heart. I am a stay at home step mom raising them. I have no bio kids and it breaks my heart. More than anything I want to be a mother... My SO is not on the same page. He had such a bad experience with bio mom that he is afraid to go through that again. I've gone above and beyond proving myself to him and the kids that am I not bio mom and I am not going anywhere. And he still doesn't want anymore kids... 😠😤😭 baby fever is killer...
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@cubanese absolutely when we first got together he told me he wanted more kids. Then going on three years I'm ready for a baby and getting excited and then he tells me not right now and then months later tells me he doesn't want more period. I'm frustrated cause I quit my job to be a stay at home parent for his kids and took them in as my own unlike bio mom but it's like I'm being punished for her mistakes.
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@cubanese yeah I'm beyond pissed...
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@cubanese right and then he waits years later to tell me he doesn't want more... After I've committed myself to his kids and our family..
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@cubanese if he would of told me this when we first got together I wouldn't of stayed....
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@cubanese yeah...
Chelsey·
@ablaub I'm sorry, that must be really hard. I can understand he doesn't want to go through what he did with his ex again but by u being there for how long? Taking care of his kids, quiting you're job your career for him and his kids makes you nothing like his ex. Have you told him how it really bothers you? What does he say?
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@chelseymamma yeah we have been together for going on 3 years and when I bring it up he tells me that if I didn't like it I can leave and find someone who is willing to give me kids.
Chelsey·
@ablaub wow that's pretty selfish ...
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@chelseymamma yeah I'm beyond frustrated.. and I'm too attached to the kids to leave
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Мама троих детей
I can totally relate sweetie. I am so sorry! It's the worst feeling ever!