Idk what to do anymore. Finally get my SD in for testing to find out what's up with her and now I…

Idk what to do anymore. Finally get my SD in for testing to find out what's up with her and now I find out my grandma is having mini strokes. I'm the only one that can take my SD in for testing because we can't afford for her dad to even miss a day of work. So I either have to put off my SD's mental health so I can see my grandma or make sure my SD gets what she needs and miss seeing my grandma for most likely the last time.