Giving hubby the silent treatment n I don't n will not apologize. Which I never do. He always the…
Giving hubby the silent treatment n I don't n will not apologize. Which I never do. He always the only one giving the peace offering. Since he have a issue about our child being up late (mainly bc I was right about him going back on his word to her n didn't put her to sleep bc he rather go outside to his loud drunk friend n I called him out bc 1 yr old was not sleep n he chosen he buddy over her) I put her to sleep n will continue to keep her close n not do anything for him just to prove my point. If I have to do everything n he get to go without.....He don't get me. None of me. Two can play this game. I see he didn't have anyone coming over or calling him out today lol or even needing him for anything lol. No knocking on the door nothing. So two more nights of the silent treatment then we will see... I refuse to give in bcuz I didn't do anything wrong. He gave a small apology but came back trying to raise his voice I shut that down too. Told I'm not wanting to argue in from of our child or with him. I was calm n not emotional. Told him I wanted to just have a talk as his wife n express my concerns to him peacefully. N I love him. He stopped in his track n talked calmly even though he pointed the finger back at me I told him I will try to have her in bed at a good time which I will. I just won't give him no food no clean clothes no sex no attention. I will give him just what he wanted time with his alcoholic friend maybe he could give him what I refusing to give. Also I took off my wedding band bc he no longer have me. I'm just a baby momma right now till he get some sense. Real talk.
Kortney Bedford·
don't act like that. That's just as immature as he's being. Step up and talk to him about the bull crap he's pulling or kick him to the curb.
Saniyyah·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I did talk to him n he blew up while all the while I was calm. There comes a time he have to get a lesson. If he don't want to put it child to sleep so he can do him ok I will put her to sleep. I'm tired from what I do for him n his home n the kids so I'm to tired to talk n cook n clean n all the other things he want me to do.. All I ask form him is to take time for his child n put his buddies on hold so he can spend quality time with her at night when he not doing anything thing else. He have time to hang with his buddies he have time for his child. So since he don't have time for her I don't have time to do things for him. It's not all about him n what he want to do.
Saniyyah·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
B4 we moved here he was different we was in a totally different environment now he hanging with alcoholics n he don't drink n our neighbor she use to come on to him n got one up the street who flashes him. I'm not use to all this ratchetness but he thinks everything is ok everything they do is excused bc "they don't know no better" told him he need to set some boundaries with them bc they don't know no better. So this is what he wanted I refuse to be disrespectful to them but refuse to be disrespected also by them or my hubby point blank period. N he know that.
chelli·
Men don't understand sometimes you have to explain several different ways before they get it
Saniyyah·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@chelli n I tried to be as calm n non argumentative as I could be.....smh look at my latest post maybe you can give me some insights to not be so confused about this situation
chelli·
It's a male thing their whole brain make up is different they do some dumb stuff and you cant tell them they wrong because in their head it's right it's annoying
Saniyyah·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
And that's my hubby too lol he know 99% of the time but he want to be right in arguments that why I don't argue with him I either be silent let him argue by his self or I talk calmly. He be the one apologizing later bc I'm right smh I wish he just skip the drama n just say I'm sorry lol