So I have this issue so I got a gf but when we broke up I wanted to see if I would still like a guy…

I would talk to her about it. And say that you need her to be supportive. while other people might keep their kids from the father that you dont want to and you dont think its right and that she has nothing to worry about because you go home to her not him every night . And hopefully she will realize that you being happy and stress free is the important thing.

Good luck i hope it helped

In all honesty, she's going to have to understand he's going to be involved no matter what. He's the babies father.

@ashtonndamon, right I try to talk to her about that it just seem like it go in one ear and out the other but we will see we're things go with everything

@kendraharlee, yeah because I don't want to keep him away from his child

Im sorry it goes down that way :( maybe tell her your considering not inviting her because of it? Maybe then it will click how serious you are?

@breannaivy39 If she's not going to understand then you shouldn't try to make her accept it. People come and go. You don't need to have her try to understand. It should come out naturally.

@evanasmama, right I'm at that point now like if you can't accept it then we don't need to talk

@breannaivy39 if the father wants to be involved I think that's very important. I wish I would have grown up with a father who cared. This is all your decision girl, if she can't take it, see ya

@kendraharlee, yeah imma let him be in his childs life because I don't want my child to grow up without his father