Is the first kid the hardest? Like adjusting to it and such?
I want a lot of kids, but at this point I don't know how I could deal.
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It's never easy taking care of a kid if it's 1 or 10 kids every kid is different so u have different struggles...but being a mom knowing what's good to do in a situation gets easy...but then again some people get it better & faster then others
The challenges are slightly different once you start having more. Of they're close in age, you have to coordinate nap time, and you'll be running after more than one every time you go anywhere. But, some areas are easier, too.
For example, with one, you are the playmate. Add another, and they soon play with each other and you can get things done easier.
They tattle on each other so you'll always know where each one is and what they're doing. 😂
If one kid is a picky eater, you can give their meal to the next one and not worry about wasting what you made.
More birthdays = getting to buy cakes and have parties more often.
After the first, you've kind of got an idea of how you can handle new babies and it'll be a jumpstart on learning with the next one.
There are ups and downs for sure. Beebaby mentioned a few of the harder things. But it's like I said at the start. The challenges are different. Right now you're only 4 months in, so it's okay to take time and enjoy just one for a while. You can leave the decision to have more for when you're ready. 😄
Once you add more to the mix it is even a bigger struggle but you just have to find a good schedule. Just having 1 was simple for me. Now that i have 3 it's 4 doctors appointments i gotta remember, 4 dentist. 2 school schedules and 1 daycare. My own work schedule and dads. Lot more going on with 3 kids than just one. I personally love big families so
Well I had my first 3 really close together. They are 16,15,&13 now. It was crazy busy life for a bit but if you put in the work for about 3 years then when they walk and eat and sleep they are pretty easy then my next 2 were 2 1/2 years apart and they are 11& 8 now and my last one Is 10 months. So the older ones help alot and they still think I'm pretty cool .