Rawr!!! My family is stressing me the DUCK out! 😤😡 wth is wrong with people! I live 10+ hours away…
Rawr!!! My family is stressing me the DUCK out! 😤😡 wth is wrong with people! I live 10+ hours away from all my family... my mom came down yesterday, to help me, because I have gestational hypertension... and we are trying to keep my BP down so I can deliver next Saturday (15th)... I was just told that my grandmother and sister are planning to come down on the 14th... and stay for 2 weeks! Like how about you ASK US... they are planning to stay in my spare room and on the couch... so I'm literally going to be in the hospital and then come home to a house FULL of people! 😒😡 no one even bothered to ask if it was okay... it's like we don't know if the baby will be in the NICU, or how long they will keep me... I'd like to come home and be settled a few days before we have a bunch of house guests! Am I over reacting here because it's like they don't even give a shit about what I want... then my mom was like fine they will just get a hotel room... my thought is they are STILL not even taking into consideration my feelings... like they are coming whether I want them here or not! 😤 I appreciate that they are excited about the baby, I'm thankful they want to visit... but how about you give us a week to adjust to our new normal before you invade our space! 🤦♀️ I'm so anxious about the induction as is, it's really stressing me that I'm going to have a ton of people here just WAITING on me to squirt this kid out so they can come see the baby! 😒 I feel like no one is thinking about me, or my stress level at all... it's all about them and what they want! 😒😓
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You're not over reacting at all. I would be pissed and not let them see the baby at all. I'm already not letting my family meet my son for at least two weeks after he is born.
Tiffany·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
@babyboy1117, it's like I appreciate that my G'ma who's almost 90, wants to come down here and stay for a while, I just wish they would have cleared the dates with us first! 😓
leesa·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
I wouldn't mind my mom at my place but no one wants a house full of company when they are tired and sore, and really what do they plan on doing? Because seriously when your child is 2 and you need a babysitter no one's gunna done running!
Tiffany·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
@deckroth2001, exactly... like I will be in the hospital until like Monday... and then we will come home to a house of people... I'm totally fine with my mom being here... she helps with our older daughter, but I'm just not crazy about having other people here... we have a small living room and only seating for like 4 people... so it's like where are we going to put everyone!