Is watching porn the same as cheating? What are your thoughts?
Ummm I think it's dishonest if he has to hide it it's obviously 🙄 something wrong.I don't like porn but my husband use to want to watch it till I put a stop to it then I started finding it in secret place so we had a serious discussion about it and how I feel I mean Im open to making our own but watching other people to me is jus creepy and also u may jus be a little self-conscious about ur body it always feels like that at the end of pregnancy and a little while after u have the baby
He's hiding it to avoid this kind of reaction likely lol. Im sorry she just asked for opinions 🙈 @js_kidsmom
@kambam, so masterbating to someone else's body who is much prettier isn't cheating?
@js_kidsmom, I used his phone to look something up but first he deleted some things. I thought it was ring business because he was talking about saving up. I got curious and came across searches of 'step son getting sucked by milf'. Like, he actually typed that in himself. Im so incredibly disturbed and being 9 months pregnant I feel so ugly and huge and he hasn't paid any attention to me. I haven't talked to him in two days. Im so sad. Any advice on what would be the best way to approach this?
Everyone is going to have a way different answer, I'm sure mine won't be liked very much...
I don't at all. Cam girls that they can interact with are a no-no in my book, but a pre-recorded video/download/website is perfectly acceptable to me.
I also don't have any religious beliefs, so there's no "sin in the eyes of God" thing for me.
I watch porn. Not often, but I have. There's nothing wrong with masturbating for both men and women. It doesn't mean he loves you less, or is unsatisfied. I'm sure there are times it can, but for the majority, it's a release. I don't always do it because I'm lacking. Maybe I need a really good long nap, I sleep well after.
The best thing I personally think you can do is ask him about it. Maybe watch it with him. Ask him what he likes about it. Watching together is fun! He will stop watching if you join in!
It's also 100% ok for you to not like it.
I don't expect my reply to change your mind about it, but you did ask for opinions, and this is mine.