Long rant for a long ass day....My 11 year old son doesn't want go with his dad as much as he does anymore and let's just say what could have been a simple conversation, turned to a complete mess. God knows what's to come. I refuse to feel the pain of sending him somewhere he doesn't want to be. His dad is a good parent but impossible to talk to. I know my son is well taken care of over there and they love him dearly. He also has two sisters at his dads and they are close as well. But my son is determined to spend more time with me and our family. I won't ever ignore my children's feelings! No matter who it hurts! When my children open up to me, it's my job as a mother to listen and fix the problem. I would do anything for my babies... point blank! As far as custody goes, we went through a lawyer 8 years ago and came to an agreement that I get him 4 nights and he gets him 3 nights a week. So almost half and half. He pays $170 monthly for child support (and always complains about it) He seems to think because we legally made an agreement in 2009 that it can never be changed but it can. I'm new to all this so if anyone has any legal advice or tips, it would be greatly appreciated.