Sounds so difficult. I chose to sleep train at 4.5 months because I worried that when they got to the age to pull themselves up on the crib and scream mum at me and fall back and potentially hurt themselves, I wouldn't be able to do it. Personally if it is the route you want to go down then firstly pick a method, read up on it. I chose ferber and ordered his book, read it for a week or two before going through. And then when you decide to sleep train, stick to it. They will scream and cry and sweat and all sorts. But what helps with picking a method is that you can calm yourself as a parent if you know how to handle the situation. For example in ferbers method if bubba vomits, you're to go in, clean them up, no excessive contact, check they're okay and then put them back to bed and exit. However this may vary. Some babies do better if mum stays in the room and slowly moves out. It's just something you need to put a little time into and be quite strong about. Again, only if you want. I have sleep trained yet I still breastfeed to sleep because I like it. However he does sleep through because he has learnt to self soothe. To each thier own hun and good luck, xx

@chloe.davenport95, I don't know what you can do then. I hope you find a solution xx

@tremzini, he has a formula for bed but still no luck with him sleeping😩😩😩😩

Have you ever thought of introducing formula. Even if only as a bed time bottle? You can breastfeed and do formula as well. I had to do both when my little boy was 2months as he was so demanding and my milk supply couldn't keep up. I did notice that when I introduced formula he slept all night. It's just an idea xx