My boyfriend's mom just invited his ex that he has a kid with to our 4th of July event knowing that…

For the kids i can understand...but. Has to be respect w that chic she needs to give..What does your man say..sound s LIKE his mom is overstepping boundaries

@sherrynygirl It would be worse for their kid for them to be in the same room. He is pissed about it and said he is going to have a talk with his mom about it. His mom always oversteps boundaries and no matter what he says she continues to do so.

@ravens_mommy .Okay see this is good your Man agrees with you! Your baby i see is 9 month's..how old is the other child

@sherrynygirl She is 4. And yes I was relieved. He is at work right now and I found out before him about it all. I was worried he would still want to go and us end us spending the day separately.

@ravens_mommy I have been with my man 16 yrs he used to be a mommy's boy.Until he stepped up and put his mother in her place! Boundaries are necessary even in friendships

@sherrynygirl They aren't really close. Unfortunately we are living at her place for the time being because he just wasn't getting good hours at work so it is constantly something with her. He's jumped on her about giving his daughter junk food at midnight and for giving her junk when she doesn't eat dinner. Once we have our own place I doubt I'll see this woman but once a year. The 4 year old is her favorite and she doesn't have much to do with my daughter so my kid wont be missing out any there.

@ravens_mommy .yeah even if you live with her for the moment..she needs to be respectful of you and her son.

@sherrynygirl I don't think she sees that. She even tried to bad mouth my mom the other night at dinner. So she's so far on my shit list I don't know if she will ever get off it.

Wow that mom has issues and she has no business there they child should come that's his child but the skimpy b**** should stay home and most definitely shouldn't have invited him over to smoke that's unacceptable in my eyes as long as he feels the same way u do about everything he should tell his mom to stop causing problems and only his other child should be attending

@mrschau21 He told his mom last night that it was unacceptable for her to invite his ex to anything and that if his ex shows up that we will be packing up our girls and going somewhere else and she won't have either of her granddaughters there. He wanted to tell his ex that she's not going but I told him to wait to see if his mom does the right thing and uninvites her.

Yea his mom should set things right ☺️

@mrschau21 Right now it's just a waiting game because she hasn't said she will uninvite her

Lol well hopefully she does so you guys don't have to deal with any kind of drama on the 4th

@mrschau21 My man reminded his ex this morning he has their daughter the 4th and she said they would all be spending it together and he told her no so drama already started.

Oh wow she just wanted to come be a pain the the ass and start problems

I think u the hubby and both kids should go do your own 4th forget the MIL and ex suppose to be a good time with you and your family

@mrschau21 We are going to try to figure out what we are going to do when he gets off work tonight. I think right now even if his ex doesn't go he doesn't want to spend the 4th with his mom because he is pretty pissed still. And I definitely don't want to even be around her because I've had nothing but issues with her lately and her inviting the ex was just icing on the cake.