Awh thank you. It was hard and sad and what was worse my mom passed away the same day I lost my second baby so it was just so much sadness at once but I'm ok with it because I know that it was all part of the plan of my life to go through that so I can see it wasn't right for me and led me to my husband and my two sweet boys. Everything happens for a reason and my husband reminds me of that all the time. Do what's right for you if you feel pain it doesn't hurt to get checked out. I was admitted twice and then they were like oh it's round ligament pain second time was early contractions so I had to go on meds and bedrest. Thanks so much I appreciate it. I don't really have many mommy friends. If you have any questions or concerns or ever need to talk you can message me as well.

@andreamcrts4 wow I'm truly sorry you had to go through all of that. Every now and then my fiancee is insensitive and he doesn't understand what it's like to be pregnant after a Miscarriage. Just tells me I exaggerate some pains or I worry to much. But it's like realistically how can I not. I Miscarried at 16 weeks so for me until I pass 16 weeks it's hard to remain calm. With a second pregnancy I feel scared to even say the word Miscarriage out loud. I hate the word. But I pray that this time around it works out. As for you. You have definitely been through a lot but you got through it. And now you have your children 💜 but I know the pain will always remain there. I know what that is like. I hope to you the best and if ever you want to talk my inbox is always open as well. I enjoy making new mommy friends.

@valeriatrujillo121, yeah it's gonna be you worrying until you see baby is ok. I was so scared with my first son I didn't tell anyone until I was 5 months just because I was worried I would tell someone and loose the baby again. My sister and I were pregnant together for both my miscarriages so when I had to morn my baby while she was having one it made me feel so sad, our babies were due same month so when my niece and nephew have a birthday it reminds me again oh I would have had a 6 and 8 year old. A miscarriage isn't anything you have done to cause it , it just means that the baby wasn't going to survive so your body rejects it. I went so long thinking it was something I could have prevented, my doctors assured me that no you did nothing wrong. Even my ex tried to tell me it was my fault that I must have done something to cause it, having two miscarriages and him not being supportive or kind made our relationship end after 13 years. I had such difficult pregnancies with both my boys bleeding, pains, early contractions and being put on bed rest. Just do what ever you need to to be happy and healthy and I'm sure it will all work out for you.

OMG yes!!!! That's my most hated line. Some people just won't understand. It's a terrible pain loosing your own child. I went through depression for months! Well at least your almost passed 8. Make sure you drink LOTS of water. Eat every 1-2 hrs, take your prenatal, I def recommend 15 min walks every day, and snacks. That's what I'm doing different this time around. Last pregnancy I let the emotions get to me and I never ate because of the naseua. And I'm 5 weeks 1 day now. I am hoping next week they give me some type of ultrasound to check on the baby.

@valeriatrujillo121, thank you. I followed back. And right now I'm 4w1d today. How far are you? Let's keep in touch. But I also dislike hearing "oh it wasn't your time" like that literally grinds my gears lol so annoying.

@pinkbows it's definitely hard. And personally for me I find it hard to talk to anyone who hasn't gone through it because I'm tired of hearing "it happens for a reason" because truly I don't believe that. How far along are you now? If you ever want to talk feel free to message me. For anything. I know what it's like to be scared. And it's nice to have someone to talk to.

@valeriatrujillo121, I feel the same!! Like I am trying not to sike myself up and get all happy and excited. My first pregnancy I didn't know i was until I went to the ER for bleeding. I actually thought it was my period but it never stopped. I was having a mc I was almost 8 weeks. And I had another mc is December. I was about 4 weeks maybe. I lost that one at home. So i totally get it.

@pinkbows it's hard to feel happy. Like last pregnancy I was extremely happy. And this one is more neutral cause I'm scared to get excited, or announce it any time soon. I found out I miscarried at 16 weeks by my very first ultrasound. So I just won't feel calm until I pass 16 weeks.

@andreamcrts4 thank you so much. I just try making sure I do everything right for the baby. Drinking water like crazy, walking every day for like 15 min, eating healthy. But overall I just pray everything will go smoothly.

Congratulations I wish you a healthy pregnancy. I had two bad miscarriages before I had my two boys.

I agree!! I've had 2 mc last year. I'm soooo nervous for this one