Mom's I need help. I'm in a terrible situation and I really don't think my pregnancy can handle anymore stress. Two days ago my wallet was stolen with $500 cash in it I had just pulled out to pay the rest of my rent. The rent was due today. My landlord HATES me he's such a slum he doesn't fix anything, doesn't replace anything, doesn't do ANYTHING. I asked him if he would give me until Friday in hopes of me being able to make the money back and he said he could only until Wednesday then he's putting us on eviction notice. I'm 18 weeks pregnant, I have a 1 year old, and the father of my baby in utero left for Texas last Friday for his new job. I'm struggling so bad, I know everyone has their issues but I help all the time. It just seems like when I need it in return no one wants to help me. My family has turned their back on me since I moved and want to see me fail. I'm heartbroken right now I do feel like a failure and a terrible mom. I can't eat or sleep all I do is try to make the last $300 I need. Can someone help? Even the smallest amount helps.
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Hey I'm sorry to hear that but have you gone to landlord tenant court before? Because an eviction notice is a notice where u appear in court! He don't have the power to say get out now! He can only file for eviction and then u go in front of the judge and tell the judge your story. AND THE JUDGE WILL BE ON YOUR SIDE! AND ALLOW YOU TO MAKE A PAYMENT PLAN AND GIVE YOU IN MOST CASES 30 DAYS! Now if u already went through court the payment arrangement and then if u dnt pay in the time as agreed then the landlord let the courts know the judge send the sheriff's to put you out. But to put somebody out it's a process for one it's too hot the judge won't grant that. My neighbor he just went through that Nd was staying in the apartment for 3 months before the sheriff came to put him out. Maybe court would be better for y'all to deal cause u really don't need the extra stress. And even after court u file a hardship to stay and the judge will give u more time! The slumlord lol is trying scare you. Hope that eased your mind!
You can call 211 and they will be able to help you find resources in your area to help. Hope things get better for you
@greenlife.mama sorry I can't help u personally. But u should really are about a go fund me account! I have family who have done it and ended up raising more than they planned !!
Ohhhhhh start a Go fund me page and tell ur story on there. U will get the money quickly!
@miriahlove he knows, but he literally just left and started this job he won't get paid until he gets back.
@greenlife.mama awh!! God will make a way just know that ! Don't stress though I know its hard. Just pray and give it to god he will help u through this. Have to talked to the father of ur baby ur pregos with now ?
@miriahlove I tried I live in a small town and our only cash advance said not approved
:"( I sooooo wish I could help u !!! Have u thought about getting a loan ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My dad doesn't think I can do this #need help.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
ladies, I need yalls help. the father of my unborn child has not been apart of this pregnancy at all. I'm do in almost 8weeks, he don't wanna help out with my baby's needs like mainly the carseat he hasn't gotten any clothes pampers or anything a new born will need,I'm so stressed out don't know what to do... I can't do this on my own, he's not wanting to pay for anything... ladies please I need advice on what to do?? 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
I'm sorry your going through this and I wish I could help but @shreeah90 is right. You have sometime before your landlord can actually evict you. He cannot just put you and your family out. Before then, you'll have to go through a court process. Until that happens find out if their are any resources or subsidies in your state that can help with rent payments. As a back up plan, I'd look into shelters also just in case. Please pray and stay positive god has a plan for you and your family. Good luck!