My depression has gone worst. And my husband is making it worst ever sence my daughter has been born…
My depression has gone worst. And my husband is making it worst ever sence my daughter has been born he has make it really difficult I clean the house make food TAKE care of daughter I try my best I really do .my daughter is only 3 weeks old n she cries alot n it might be my brain that sh3 is CONSTALY hungry n i always think I make less milk n my HUSBUND is always bitching at me calling lazy ass bad mother peace of shit n telling me u can't even do one job feed ur daughter wich I do I try to feed her both boobs but sometimes she cries more n more n more .n sometimes behind his back I have to give my daughter formula so she can be a Lil more full of I feed her formula he litterly will bitch at me n call me names .exactly right now I feed my daughter both boobs so she was crying I went n prepared a bottle to warm up n me b3ing NERVEOUS I fill up with lots of warm water the pot so the bottle was floating my HUSBUND came n trew it all over my stove n call me names there was water everywhere n he just took my daughter away from all I did cry n run to my room .😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I am not a bad mom I really not I try my best n she is my first Ian learning .litterly my heart is broken 💔💔💔💔💔💔
Perla·
Ur not alone im in the same place i feel horrible right now cause i don't make enough milk either and i just started the formula and now my daughter has a gassy tummy to were she keeps crying none stop and all my so family is calling me. A bad mother to and i just come in my room and cry my eyes out 😕😣😪
Jasmine 🌻·
Мама дочки-младенца
@cubanese, may be able to give you some advice about the breastfeeding. Don't give up, 3 weeks is a major growth spurt!! She's still so new to this world and is so used to being inside of you. She won't only breastfeed when she's hungry. She'll do it for comfort, safety, thirst, closeness and so many other reasons. The first 3 weeks were the hardest for me, the first 3 months is considered the fourth trimester.
Natasha Magolan ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Feeding your baby formula doesn't mean your a bad mom, my first was only breastfed for a month and then put on formula. My 7 month old was on premie formula and pumped breastmilk when in nicu and at home for 2 months. After that straight to formula because of latching issues and not making enough milk
Samoy ·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
Feeding your baby formula doesn't make you a bad mom, I didn't produce enough breast milk so I put my baby girl on formula, first I try the regular version and realize it was making her spit up a lot so I switch her to soy and she was fine.
Lillian Lerdo·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Your husband is a ass. Who treats a new mother the way he is treating you!!! Maybe her tummy hurts dont worry or get stressed I think the one who is wrong is him
Kimberly Ann·
Мама двоих (младенец)
He is a dick! You aren't a bad mom. Some people just don't produce enough at first. I saw a lactation consultant to help me when I thought my daughter was never getting enough. She gave me tips such as..pump for 15 min on each breast about 30 min after a feeding...drink a beer before bed...lactation cookies.. don't stress as much because it slows milk production..and drink a bunch of water. My first was formula fed and I had to switch to soy and he is still a happy and healthy kid! Hang in there! I hope it gets better
Julia Boles·
Мама троих детей
That's abuse. You're not doing anything at all wrong. Stress (that he's causing) can keep you from producing milk. Some women never produce anything at all (I didn't with either kid) and that doesn't make them a bad mom. I'm not sure if you have friends or family to stay with for a bit, but if you do you need to.