My husband doesn't want me taking birth control after we have this baby. I don't want to be pregnant…

@beebaby well we lost our twins last year. One while I was pregnant and one at 2 months of sids but he was very helpful with my son. He's always wanted a big family and so do I but since we lost our boys he feels like he has to make up for that but being pregnant is really hard on my body like I can barely eat anything because the morning sickness is rough on me. He is a great man and I have no doubt that he will do whatever it take to raise them with me but I know having to deal with 2 babies in diaper is rough.

I would tell him it is NOT his choice and in that aspect he cannot control you

@cb958805 it's not a controlling thing. We both lost our son and that's just how he feel. Obviously we have time to talk about it

But if you are not ready to have another baby right yet, then birth control is needed. And there is no "making up" for a lost child. The child cannot be replaced.

I say talk it out and see where it does at the end of the day u guy know what yah doing

@babyveach

You should have your doctor explain the risks of getting pregnant again soon after having a baby to him, you could actually die, it's rare, but he doesn't need to know that if you don't want him to lol

I say birth control or condoms.

@cb958805 that's not what I meant by making up for our son. No matter what my first born will never be replaced. I would never try to replace my baby boy. Thank you. And I'm pregnant right now so it's kinda too late not to have another baby. We are ready to start a family but because we both had imagined raising our twins together. I understand why he want them so close in age but I just want one potty trained before having another.

@babyboy1117 I told him I want my thigh piece before another one and since I'm breast feeding that will be a while lol.

@emileewells1153 yeah. I don't really like condoms. Anytime we have used them they broke. And birth control is iffy for me. It either makes me sick or makes me lose a bunch of weight.

@crod0189 yes. That's for sure. I'm pregnant now so it's not like I can get pregnant again. So we obviously have time to talk it out.

@babyveach, I understand that! My fiancé is okay either way. I was on birth control before. Stopped it(to try for a baby) got pregnant in a month, and today I said I'm getting right back on it after I give birth and he said why, which shocked me so I asked him if he didn't want me to and he said he didn't care. He was just wondering. I had the implant before and loved it. I felt normal just no periods.

@emileewells1153 i don't want something in my arm. I was on depo and i loved it but I'm not sure how it will make my milk supply.

@babyveach, you can always consult your doc on what is the best option for you and baby