I'm so insecure about my baby belly, I'm 9 weeks postpartum and every time I look at myself in the…
I'm so insecure about my baby belly, I'm 9 weeks postpartum and every time I look at myself in the mirror it makes me want to cry. I can't shake the feeling my boyfriend (baby's father) notices it too and makes him disgusted too and that he's talking to other women. He swears he isn't but hides his phone from me a lot and I never hide mine.. I just can't shake the feeling of it and it makes me crazy.. I'm not sure what to do..
Stephanie·
Мама дочки-младенца
Relationships change after baby. My boyfriend (isn't baby's dad) is very supportive of my want to change my Body. But, we've started our intimate relationship. I'm 6 weeks pp.
Have you guys been close?
elizabeth s·
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@misscountaway, yeah we have been. I've always been insecure so it could be that as well as I don't really like how my body looks
Stephanie·
Мама дочки-младенца
@addysmumma, well, if your comfortable in the relationship talk to him about your insecurities momma! Let him know. He may step up & help build you up.
elizabeth s·
Мама дочки-младенца
@misscountaway, thanks lovely. I've tried and he says he loves my body and it isn't brought up again because he says it's doesn't matter if I don't like it because he loves it. It's hard. We've been together for almost 4 years though
Stephanie·
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Well, as much as we hate the pp body. Trust him and try and love it. Try and see if there's some sort of work out you can do together and work it momma!
elizabeth s·
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@misscountaway, thank you love
Stephanie·
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Anytime! :) were all in this together!
T W·
Мама сына (1 год)
I know how you feel... went through that with my fiancé but eventually, I just stop giving a crap about his phone and just cared only about our sons wellbeing. Eventually you grow to love your body and work on it. I hated my stomach. Still do but I'm doing something about it and I'm using a lot of bio oil to get rid of my stretch marks. Self love helps build confidence in yourself and when some random stranger down the street may compliment you and say your a hot mom and eventually you will feel like a hot mom. My child is going to be 2 September 25th and I'm finally getting my confidence back and feeling like a really hot mom
elizabeth s·
Мама дочки-младенца
@walters30, I've been dieting and Walking a lot so I've noticed my stomach getting flatter. It makes me super happy tbh, I've got a long way to go but I'm glad that I have a baby who loves me haha. And we've talked about this
T W·
Мама сына (1 год)
That's good!! I've been walking a lot everyday and drinking lots of water. Yoga helps and wearing some make up and getting manis and pedis really help just relax too