Venting... Here I am going yo have a baby soon.My husband ex wife got mad n put out not needed…

Thats how it was with my fiancees ex, and now shes trying to get every penny and take all of his attention away from our family, and she is trying to make it to where their son acts out so my fiancee doesn't have to help me with the baby on the way and my son, his son broke his foot so he wouldn't go to work. Like who tells their child to do that? There are some petty people out there, but keep your head up it will all work out. I know in some cases if they go to mediation over their child she cant get any child support from him or it would be less.

@bellesmomma in all the while we support them on all levels n being there thru it all. I love this man n will stay be his side but it's just so frustrating n to see this go on and have no power to do anything.

@mandy642 he would take care his kids by her like he being doing n she know that that's what pisses me off why put suppose on him when he being taking care of them. N he still do b4 the court date. It's bc of he gotten married n having kids by me n moved on with his life while she thinks she still should get taken care of by him. No he just take care of his kids only not her. Now I'm getting taken care of she can't stand it or me but take it out on him n their kids now me n my kids come July 5th

@saniyyahhasan, I was in a situation like that and I fixed it. She put him on child support and so did I. It lowered hers to almost nothing. Boy was I proud. I have more kids with him than she does. So she ended up getting like $20 a month 😂😂. All of the child support payments I received came right back into our household. Two can play that game especially with a jealous ex . That put her right in her place 😉

@custom_cutie lol that's crazy...good idea now that you said that he have to count his income n expenses we have plus my kids I have with him n the money he give her already so hopefully that would lower her support. He told her if he have to pay any support hr would not do any extra expenses she get already she short changing herself bc he everything for them so she won't get no more than she is ordered to get plus he asking for visitation on top of that. I don't think I should put him on support unless we divorce

@saniyyahhasan, I did to my husband. We talked about it. It was so we had the upper hand. We thought about it that way too they way your thinking of doing it. It wouldn't have worked in my state because then it would have been a two parent household and they would deduct as much as. They would deduct more if I did it the other way

@saniyyahhasan, lol we fixed her 😂😂best day and best the money came back in the house now she still looking stupid with all them kids by random men 😩😂😂on welfare and section 8 no job no diploma no drivers license. I was her Karma😉