I feel as if I'm crying for attention from my boyfriend and he completely ignores the signs, and…

I feel as if I'm crying for attention from my boyfriend and he completely ignores the signs, and I've clearly told him exactly what I need from him, as well as our daughter. He plans thing for every single weekend to work or work for friends. It's really sweet of him but every weekend it gets old. He doesn't seem to want to be with us. And when he is he's on his phone or going against everything I do with our daughter such as discipline or schedule.