It's damn well pathetic that I told my son's father that I'm at 2cm on Tuesday and I'm only 34wks…

It's damn well pathetic that I told my son's father that I'm at 2cm on Tuesday and I'm only 34wks and 5dys as of today and he knows that I'm having lower back pains with stomach tightenings but what does he do instead of stay home and help me with our 1yr old son; he goes and takes his alcoholic father to the store and waste gas by joy riding around