I just need to vent here for a minute! My moms boyfriend is the closest thing I've ever had to a father however the way he treats my mom and his attitude sucks. He makes 1600-2000 a month and only pays half of rent and the water bill a total of $600 he then sends his mom $200 so he would still have 800-1200 left right? Yeah no he spends it all getting high(he has his medical card) or going to the bar. He gets off work at 2 pm yet goes to hang out with either his female friend or his male friend and he drinks every time then comes home in a shitty ass mood with my mom every single time. He has literally washed 2 pans and 1 fork the entire year he's lived with us and won't take the trash out, wouldn't help paint, never takes care of feeding watering or cleaning after his own dog. I'm in my 7th month of pregnancy and he hasn't helped me get baby stuff not one bit. I have gall stones and have been told not to eat pork at all until I can have the surgery to remove my gallbladder yet he makes my mom make pork products almost every night like literally 9 out of the past 14 days its been pork because he doesn't want chicken and refuses to eat any other beef than steak. He has helped with groceries maybe a handful of times but that's it my mom pays for his gas, half of rent, electric, does the majority of housework and he still comes home and is an asshole hes told her to shut up before and if she asks how his "friend" is he immediately gets defensive and tells her "to stop asking questions about her". My mom loves him very much but its bullshit she also can't leave him because with her paychecks she doesn't make enough to pay rent and water and electric and car insurance and gas and groceries without him due to the fact I'm on bed rest and its really taking a toll on her behavior and mental state he calls her crazy because the second he's around his female friend then he refuses to answer my moms texts or calls its so damn rude and all she does is defend him and tell me to stop being a hormonal bitch and its like uhh Wtf
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@americanhoney303 I've spent 5 days down at the food stamp office each day we were there for 4-6 hours and each and every time they came up with some new random paper they needed so food stamps is a no go and the only places around here will give you $20 on your electric once a year which during the summer is like 3 days worth of electric so its not really helpful hell I have begged and begged and begged for help finding a crib mattress for the baby's crib and he won't give me the money and everywhere just tells me to go to Wal-Mart because they are only $40 there like uh I don't have any money at all considering the fact I am high risk and was put on bed rest at 9 weeks back the last week of february or first week in march can't remember so I literally haven't had any money and no places donate them since there are frequent recalls on mattresses and goodwill told me they don't sell them due to recalls and all my mom can say is well once the baby gets here like seriously if she tells me once the baby gets here one more fucking time I'm going to snap my aunt literally has 3 cars 2 houses makes around 3-4k a month and refuses to help saying I shouldn't have gotten into this position, uh I was told by 7 specialists I could never conceive, not to mention I had a job until December when I quit after being denied transfer even though I was being sexually harassed by my manager so I quit and then about a week after we found out I was pregnant my now ex got fired then we broke up the second week in march so I'm literally just on my own hell if my friend hadn't had a miscarriage and didn't want to see it anymore I wouldn't even have a car seat I'm so frustrated
Can you guys get assistance of any sort? That mentality of his is not good around you, or your mom or any kids in the mix.
@americanhoney303 sadly financially that's not really a possibility right now
That's rough. Hopefully you guys find a way to get away from this situation.