Don't mind me guys someone was about to be on they bull crap talking junk being very judgemental.. mfs need not to speak unless they know my fucking situation rs

Oh somebody had sense enough to delete that last comment because they clearly was about yo get cursed TF out.

@puertoricanmommyof3 thanks

@viktoriavaneycke4444, I hope everything works out for you as well ☺️❤️

@puertoricanmommyof3 thanks and we are going through foster care private adoption agency too. Either way we hope something works for us.

@viktoriavaneycke4444, I wish you luck and hope you have your own lil bundle of joy very soon you would be a Great mommie ❤️😊

@puertoricanmommyof3 thanks

I'm so sorry mama and I'm very sorry for your friend 😩@viktoriavaneycke4444,

@puertoricanmommyof3 we are foster care parents. We spoiled them rotten. Miss that. I had 3 failed pregnancies. Trying one more time. My poor friend got the worst news ever after she did the hsg testing. She barren

@viktoriavaneycke4444, yes thats true parents do abuse they're own children and omg that's horrible that's why I always say some people in this world are so cruel and some people just aren't cut out to be parents if they wanna do something so vile to they're own children I don't trust anyone with my kids as long as I'm in the room with them never leave my child alone with anyone

@puertoricanmommyof3 not entirely true on adopted parents abusing children and remember even their own parent abuse them too. A lady went crazy and cut her 3 birth kids throats.

@shateira.davis, I'm about to have my 3rd child too and tbh at first my fiancé was thinking about me doing an abortion but I started to think what if this is the girl I always wanted cause I already have two boys I don't believe in abortion and would never give my child to someone I don't know 🤷🏼‍♀️ cause they could be abusing them and I wouldn't know about it but that's my opinion it's gonna be hard but I'm taking responsibility and now my fiancé is happy I'm having this baby cause it's a precious life and i was told this one is a girl so I'm overwhelmed with joy but I wish you the best sweetie do what you heart desires if adoption is your choice I respect that decision cause I understand what your saying ❤️big hugs❤️ (>^_^)>

@emileewells1153 Believe me it wasn't something that randomly occurred for me it's been up for debate for a while now .

@shateira.davis, if this was your first thought I'd tell you to wait it out. But if you have thought about it many times through out a period of time and you believe it's right then it's right! Just gotta believe in yourself mama!

@emileewells1153 thanks that's very comforting knowing there is some positivity in wanting to go and put my child up for adoption I was very uneasy about it first but then it seemed like a better choice .

I was adopted by my grandparents thankfully. I still talk to my mother but she knew she couldn't take care of me. I always respected her for making that hard decision. And even if you don't have family to take your little one, there are always lots of amazing families out there. You can get to know them before you sign anything. Plus you can always have an open adoption if you'd like so you can still know about your little one and talk to him/her. Or it can be closed. Adoption is beautiful. I don't like the foster care system but the idea of adoption is lovely.

@shateira.davis, absolutely if you ever need to talk message me

@smooches37 me also I just don't know because for one I want my child to have an comfortable life and for me and my two I already have it's not going to be any easier .... So thanks for being supportive and understanding .

@sylvia.oleksy I never said I wasn't open to an open adoption like I said I didn't feel comfortable letting anyone have my child read this a little more carefully next time and keep your hug goodbye .

Do you feel comfortable with not letting someone live? And or always wondering what they would look like?! It is hell on earth - I found that having the child is sooooo much easier than the other options... But that is me... Big hug

@shateira.davis, I understand adoption is a better option than abortion. I think your doctor isn't being supportive of your decision

@puertoricanmommyof3 thanks for understanding because alot of people would usually be so judgemental and @smooches37 I've been talking to my doctor and she's trying to convince me to keep the baby talking about I'm going to change my mind my bd left when I was 5 months talking about entrapment ECT but I'm the one who's carrying and also wanted a abortion but he refused to have his half of the money so it can be done I want to go back to school and work full time and that's impossible with a 3 , 2 and new born for me because it's just me I have no help already Nd I actually had to cut hours at work recently because of issues with this baby I just don't see an upside for any of us if I keep her .

@shateira.davis, I hope everything works out for you but allot of people will ask you those questions hun. Talk to your doctor and see what your options are

@shateira.davis, i understand mama

@smooches37 I have been but so far I'm not getting any answers I know I don't want to keep the baby though .

@puertoricanmommyof3 I'm not raising a third child on my own point blank period that's why.

Sorry but If you don't mind me asking mama why do you feel like putting the baby up for adoption?

I say pray on it