Fuck fuck fuck my ex/baby daddy went on my phone and saw my flirty/dirty messages to someone I've…

If you arent together then why is there a problem? You are single so you are free to talk to whoever you want!

Oh hun you stay head strong for your little boy dont let his attitude ruin your sons birthday if he doesnt come then thats taking it out on his son and is spiteful dont let him use albie as a weapon, hes probably just hurting but you cant help that your doing the right thing and being a good mumma so keep smiling hun you can do this x

He simply shouldn't have gone on your phone... He is in the wrong.

@kate_smith, @west94, @kayteamay, I feel bad he saw what he saw that was awful BUT I've told him for months I don't wanna be together yes he stays and maybe I have lead him on sometimes but he had no right to go on. My phone at the end of the day it's only flirty banter etc but the way he's going on you'd think I've cheated I've been nothing but faithful for 7 years!! I can't say the same for him regardless if it was before we had a baby he done a lot worse

I split up with my ex husband after finding out he had been sleeping around. He hacked into my Facebook like 3 months after i left him and saw messages between me and another guy and je went mental so i can totally understand. He shouldnt have gone through your phone and you are single! Dont let him ruin your sons day x

@kayteamay, I do feel bad for him don't get me wrong the stuff I said I wouldn't want him to see as it was quite bad BUT as a single woman I don't see what I've done so wrong??

Your single it might take him longer to come to terms with the break up between you both but it doesnt give him any rights to do what hes doing. Your not in the wrong hes just upset dont let it get you down it is what it is xx @holliesinead

@holliesinead how long have you been seperated?

@kayteamay, about 2 months x

@holliesinead what does he expect? You are a pretty girl, guys will be interested! Dont worry yourself x

You say you are single but have lead him on... Perhaps you guys need another chat about where you both stand. No one likes to see an ex with someone new or the idea of it. Just something he'll have to get over.