My SO has been asking girls out behind my back....im 30 weeks pregnant with his kid...how do i handle this..

I'd say confront him. Bc I would leave. No way in hell I would stay.

Do you know for sure he's doing this behind your back? Or just heard?

If so and I was in your position I'd leave with no hesitation. That's disrespectful to you especially while you're carrying his child.

He is telling me she took it the wrong way....how do i trust that? It sounds like a bunch of bullshit

Is there more than 1 girl that he's done this with, or just 1 "misunderstanding"?

Right now its just one girl but its happened before.. he always claims they misunderstood him.

@nickee, yeah if it's happened before, I agree that it seems really hard to believe a misunderstanding would happen twice. Unfortunately it sounds like he just assumes he can get away with that kind of behavior even if he gets caught because he has before. You're going to have to decide if you're going to leave or stay and put up with his unacceptable behavior, since it sounds like a pattern. I'm sorry 🙁

@heatherthere i just wanted my baby to have both her parents. I dont want to do the whole joint custody business.. i grew up like that and it was miserable. I wanted to be a family so bad..

@nickee, I can relate to that. My bf and I argue sometimes and at various times we've both said we were going to leave, but I'd be devastated beyond words if we split - not just for my sake anymore, but for exactly the reason you said.

If you really want to make it work, maybe you can talk with him and figure out a way for you two to move forward together. Do you think he loves you, but just has some kind of issue himself that he acts out like that? If you do stay with him, I hope he takes it seriously and understands he can't keep acting that way. You definitely need to make him understand that you're not just going to put up with him continuing to disrespect you and your relationship like that.

@heatherthere i plan on talking to him about it in person soon. Im staying with my parents for a bit so i can cool off and not let emotions get in the way so we can have a serious discussion. Im a little distraught right now.. i cant think straight