So when my husband and I first got together he was living with another woman who he swore he never…

So when my husband and I first got together he was living with another woman who he swore he never dated. I asked him multiple times and he said no, and they never slept together. I trusted him. But today after 4 years he finally told the truth when I tricked him into telling me. The worst part is I was called a homewrecker when we got together . But now it all makes sense. I really was a homewrecker... just didn't know it. I feel so stupid for believing him. But why would he lie to me...

I mean isn't it just as easy to tell the truth. I know it's stupid but now it makes me wonder what else has he lied to me about. How am I supposed to trust him? I was called horrible names because of this. And it will forever haunt me. How do I know he won't leave me for someone else?

I'm so numb and so hurt. And starting to question our entire relationship now.