After trying for a year and 3 months to make sure Naomi always had her dad in her life I realize I…
After trying for a year and 3 months to make sure Naomi always had her dad in her life I realize I shouldn't be the one begging him to be a father he should wanna be a father it honestly pissed me off beyond all means and hurt a lot that he watched Naomi while sick and said it's hard work to watch her and that he takes me for grant at times but the next day refused to watch her it kills me to cut all contact with him cause he don't care if he sees Naomi or not last time he went a month without seeing her before I harassed him to see her I can't keep doing this but it honestly kills me that I can't give Naomi her father cause he won't grow up and realize he is a father now
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
I'm so sorry some men you just can't change they have to change on there own. My daughter is 5 and hasn't seen him since she was 1. He sucks ass he pays only 14 bucks for child support & that's if I get lucky he sends it every 6 months or so I used to be so sad for my daughter but then realized she has me and that's all she needs. Your daughter has you and you seem like a great Mother it's his loss.
Kayla·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@nessairieray, Naomi is her dad second daughter he completely abandoned his first daughter for longest he blamed his daughter's mother but I realized it's him he constantly blaming her and me for keeping his daughters away but he will go weeks without seeing them the other mom cut all communication think it's been 7 months since he saw his first daughter and he pays child support but it's only $46 a week which barely anything and thank you I try doing my best to raise Naomi and I'm slowly realizing that she got my parents and me and don't need him
Nikki Williams·
Мама сына (2 года)
I know it is very hard, but ask yourself if you want your LO acting like that-seriously, and go from there..if you don't feel it is acceptable-YOU are the mom, protect your baby. You tried, and be glad you weren't one of the women dangling your LO for money and attention 🙄🙄!! Now, for him to see your LO from now on should be a privilege..you have to set boundaries for your baby too..they are experiencing loss on another level and they dont understand why dad doesnt want to be around..so if you have to take some no contact time-do that-protect you and her and spend lots more time with them so they don't even feel loss bc neither one of you deserves that kind of abuse 😇😇rs 💪💪 u got this-
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
@mommyloveshersweetdiva, yeah girl some men will never grow up! And of course his family says it's my fault but it's truly not he's been jobless and wasn't even there when our daughter was born. I know it's going to be hard because she's your baby and you want her to know her daddy but if he can't meet you half way then he's gotta go you know