Most men get the better half of raising kids. Women sacrifice their bodies, sleep, sanity, and most…
Most men get the better half of raising kids. Women sacrifice their bodies, sleep, sanity, and most of the time can't even eat throughout the day. Yes my SO works but my job NEVER ends. I don't get to clock out. I've had a fussy baby all day and he's laying in bed sleeping while our son cries. I'm sorry. I just really needed to vent 😒😡😔
sherry S·
@sequala_parson Depends on how the man was raised...I work in the day Tue-fri 9-3&sat usually 10-12 hrs..he works in the evening s he is with the baby while i work..we each do housework .i never have to tell him to wash dishes...having 3 kids i think sometimes kids..babies just want the mom.we are multi taskers.i get ready for work in the am.change his clothes from night before.feed him burp him.play a little and do my hair.makeup for work..but..yeah at times seems overwhelming it does get easier *We all need a break at times*
quala_baby·
Мама сына-младенца
@sherrynygirl, he helps with housework but I want to be able to sleep sometimes. He's sleeping now but he'll still sleep through the whole night and not help with the baby. It's ridiculous
sherry S·
@sequala_parson .yeah not good...I've taught my man keep the light low in room.warm up the bottle.but..yeah all my 3 older men here in house sleep like bears..i rather do it w.occasionally telling him to get up..jayden goes to sleep faster w me..within 10-30 min once he cries for a blanket that came off or pacifier or I'll just rub his back..i know when I watch his dad sleep at times I'm like:/🔥💣who sleeps so damn deep
Jas·
@sequala_parson, girl yes. I appreciate my husband n all but as far as the baby it's really all on me because I'm breastfeeding . So usually I'm up being jealous of how peaceful he's sleeping at night. And then I'm home all day not sleeping either lol
quala_baby·
Мама сына-младенца
@sherrynygirl, lol exactly... it drives me nuts. If I ask him to make a bottle while he's sleeping or hand me a diaper, he'll huff and puff like he can't just go back to sleep
quala_baby·
Мама сына-младенца
@denise1493, exactly... I breastfeed and supplement... he could feed him if he wanted to... he just doesn't or he can't multitask when he does. If he feeds my son he's like "hand me this or that" while I'm trying to sleep
sherry S·
@sequala_parson i keep extra diapers.wipes and a fresh baby bottle near his crib on my dresser I'm prepared.jayden will be 6 month's mon so he's pretty much stays regular pattern asleep :/ 830-930 latest he'll wake up around 1 ish and then by 5 or 6am..but.trust me I'll wale around the bedroom rocking hik to sleep and have plenty of sarcastic comments and he's snoring so loud ill throw a pillow on his. Dads face..i have always been a light sleeper
sherry S·
@sequala_parson right we as mom's do it all without asking hey pass me a diaper at 4 am we just get it no huffing comments either hahah
quala_baby·
Мама сына-младенца
@sherrynygirl, 😂 exactly... there's no point anymore
sherry S·
@sequala_parson .don't know if u have other kids..but...if I'm really tired I'll put him in his bassinet stroller near my side of bed...or love his vibrating chair helps to back to sleep for baby and me
quala_baby·
Мама сына-младенца
@sherrynygirl, I just have a stepdaughter but she doesn't live here... I'll try some of those things and see if it helps
Queen Bitch·
We kept our swing beside our bed and after he ate a bottle I would put him in his swing and he would go right back to sleep lol
quala_baby·
Мама сына-младенца
@sawyersmom, that might work... I'm willing to try it
Queen Bitch·
He slept in the swing until he was almost 6 months old. And now he sleeps in his crib all night long. It really helped us out a lot
quala_baby·
Мама сына-младенца
@sawyersmom, that would be really nice... my son likes to sleep in his boppy sometimes