Okay I need y'alls opinion again😔.. Okay so my bf came to my house yesterday so he could take me to…

If the kids are his you have to let him see them. Trying to make peace so you guys can coparent isn't stupid. It's very smart. You're doing the right thing.

@namastaye he started working so he's trying to save it up to get a house. My family doesn't believe he can do it and they think he will do the same things to me but he's shown the opposite

@namastaye I'm trying to say that to myself but just because I forget like 1 or 2 things for them she gives me this look and I'm tired of it

@tiredmom I do let him see them I have no problem with that. My family says he hasn't bought things for them or anything and imma have trouble going to my nieces 15 next year because he won't sign a paper but we have talked it out. He doesn't care what my family nor his about what they say he only cares about what I say and think about him...

Just give him a chance if that's what you think is best and don't let your family interfere with that. Its your relationship, not theirs. No matter how many times they tell you they know what best or blah blah blah. If he hasn't changed, and is still the same, then you have to be ready to face that problem in the long run. But if you truly think he's changed and deserves another chance then go for it!! Just don't beat yourself up if he just so happens to be the same ( not saying he will be!! Just always be prepared for anything momma! )

@adrianasmtz1994 time is the best thing anyone can give their kid. As long as he's trying it doesn't matter what your family says. Your kids your choice.

@elliotsmum yeah I actually wanna try one last time if things don't get better then i guess I gotta let go. But so far he has shown that he's changing little by little. I just hope he keeps it that way

@adrianasmtz1994 either ways he still the father of your kids your kids have the right to see him... but then again only GOD can change a guy I learned that from my previous relationship. I dont know what he's done to you for you to give him another chance but dont put yourself in a position that you dont want your kids to be in they dont need to be around bad atmosphere... Your mom needs to give you space but at the same time she's looking out for you and dont want you to fall in the same trap again.... I was like that towards my mom but at the end of the day if i would've listened to her i wouldn't be in the position i was before.. yea moms might be tuff on us but no one will be there for you like like she's there for you

@tiredmom very true but a little help getting diapers and clothes would help a lot also

@melox_90 yeah I know. He's actually getting more involved in church which is a really good thing I was getting into it to but I stopped since I didn't go with them(his family) to church anymore I haven't slept over anymore.. But I know my mom needs to give me space but when I want to make my own choices she gets an attitude