So my SO keeps yelling at me saying the house is dirty and I never clean and that he's gonna leave me for it and shit…

Your house is definitely clean lol

@sawyersmom, apparently not. I'm scratching my head trying to figure out what to clean

Lol your husband would hate me 😂😂😂 do you want me to send a picture of my house so he can realize he is being a douche

@sawyersmom, he's like this everyday. Saying that I talk back and shit. Also says I start fights when he will sit there and push my buttons or a certain tone of voice will set him off and he will say I'm fighting. He says he hates me when he's mad but then turns around an hour later and says he loves me.

@vamommy89, thank you. It's very frustrating because he just cooks and does the shopping which is a lot but when he's home he just stays in the bedroom and plays pool on his phone. And when he does cook it's something easy that doesn't take time or we eat out. He says I need to either clean or cook. I take care of the baby take care of the dog and take care of him I never really get time to take care of myself. I'm super depressed.

Well shit don't let the door you in the ass crack on the way out ✌✌✌ I clean up after no adult but myself.

Damn straight. @vamommy89 I be wanting him to say it to me so I can give him a taste of this whopper 🤛

@vamommy89, no he started after I had the baby. He keeps saying it's me that's changed

@beebaby, I leave his mess there. Then he cleans it up and stays he cleans up after me.

Well that fine. He can. Does he have dinner, does he have clean clothes and sheets, does he have a clean baby he take credit for but doesn't actually put in the hours with. Sure. So he can afford to do some cleaning. He shit would be on the front lawn. They don't realize how much you do until it's not done. Eff that. He can see how it is in the real world.

Yes Lord @vamommy89

I got a funny story about the way I brought my husband back to earth if you would like to hear it

Sounds like my babys father. You might have to get used to the thought of being a single mom because this is no way a man should treat a woman. This post just pissed me off. Bogus men are always trying to make good women look bad.

@vamommy89, he's left for work for a week before and just went back to how he was before the trip. It's very frustrating. He works today so I'm able to do what I want with out him bitching. He's not like this all the time just most of the time 😂 I recently just stopped trying to talk to him when he starts bitching

@vamommy89, 😂😂😂

I could not live like that

Sorry to say but what an asswhole

That's fucked up. Sorry girl. Stand ur ground, and speak up!

Your house is clean 🤤 and oh I WISH THAT MF WOULD use me and his ex in the same sentence. There's a reason that girl is his EX and you are his CURRENT.

This is an abusive situation. It's very unhealthy for you, and for your child. He's speaking to you as though you are below him, and that's not okay.

You need to either get him to straighten out, or get yourself out of there. Little girls look to their fathers as examples of how a partner should treat them one day, and I'm sure you would go full momma bear if you ever saw a man speak to your daughter that way.

@joanna.davis, he doesn't hit me. He's just an asshole sometimes lol

@courtney017 Abuse doesn't have to be physical, most of the time it isn't. He's using his words to belittle you and control your emotions, that's definitely abuse.

W*H*A*T?! O-m-G! How dare he!!!! Yep! Throw him out pronto Hun! My hb tried something similar - I ate his ego for lunch! Don't let him put you down! He has no right!!!

Well - he hits you with his verbal abuse! What an idiot you just described! I know - I have had one for ages! Once you stop caring & start removing him he will crawl like a worm