My ex didn't say anything about wanting to come down here next Sunday for Father's Day. I was going…

My son father hasn't seen him in 2 years not birthdays, holidays, phone calls, or video chats, nothing.... it makes me angry but also happy at same time cause my son deserves better..

That's terrible! And you're so right your son does deserve better, as does mine. His dad try's to pretend he's someone he's not. It's so hard for me to figure out if he's being genuine or fake all the time. He randomly comes and sees him. And usually it's once a month until recently it's been more often. He was completely closed off to him until he was 8 months old, it made me sick. And even today when he was here something about him turned me off. I feel bad for my son because he deserves the best. And I love him so much like there's no words to describe my love for this baby. He makes me so happy and overwhelmed with joy that all I want to do is love him up. And it's sad his dad isn't the same. His sisters will be in NY this week for the summer and they have yet to meet him yet. So it'd be great for them all to come down Sunday and go do something together like the zoo or there's a couple other animal parks not to far from here or a picnic in the park... Something but idk if he will 😕 @mzstrickland1214,

It's not your job to make any arrangements for him. If he wants. to see his kid he'll make the effort. My son's​dad hasn't​ even tried to see my son in years. Kids deserve better.

Yeah that's exactly why I didn't say anything today because he's the one that should be like oh can I come spend the day with the baby for Father's Day... Not me having to tell him too. @tiredmom,

@missjess as soon as I quit begging my son's dad to see him, he never came around or called.

Yeah well my sons dad is fighting for custody of him. And it's not even about my son it's about him having control and power over the situation. He's disgusting.@tiredmom,

@missjess that sucks. Sounds like he shouldn't be a parent at all

Nope. He's so fake 🙄 he puts in this act but I see right through it. @tiredmom,

@missjess I know how that goes. He"cares" sooo much, his son is his life! You're the one keeping him from seeing his kid!!!! Oh poor him. But he's the one that doesn't try, he's the one that cancels plans, he's the one that doesn't help. You do everything on your own and he still tries to make you look like the bad guy.

Omg that is spot on!! Ugh these fricking men 🙄@tiredmom,