All I want to do is go out with my friend for her birthday. That's it. Have a couple drinks, dance,…

All I want to do is go out with my friend for her birthday. That's it. Have a couple drinks, dance, go out for once. We don't have a lot of money right now but we don't have anything to pay for. (He only worked two days last week because he got a new job) so his checks were small. Apparently it's too much to ask, even though last weekend he had all these people over, he got hammered, and they went and got food two separate times. We didn't have any money then either.....why am I not allowed to have fun?? I already know I can't spend that much money so what the heck!?