Any ideas on how to discipline a 16 yo OTHER than taking her phone and grounding for being…

@mrs.collins .i have a 14 yr old and 21 yr old..when i say turn off laptops they better be off with that stupid xbox works for boys thats their life once home from school.work just annoying..*for a teen girl i magine Taking her makeup and cell away she'll die

When i pissed my mom off (this is when i got bad) she took my phone, i did chores for free, no enternet acess, i didnt get to go anywhere till my grounding was done, and didnt get to pick out what to watch on tv. Ill never admit to her thats the time that broke me but its true 😅 bassically all i did was read (which i hate reading) and do chores, eat, and sleep.

Bend her over your knee and whoop her ass idc how big she is

My mom would tell me if I didn't get my crap together that she would take away the phone for a year and she meant it. I never got paid to do chores and if I got into trouble I didn't get to watch tv I had to go to my room. If I even raised my voice a little I would get a slap in the face. Always they always warned me that no matter how old I was I'm not too old to get spanked.

@studio.ghibli.mom23 I let her stay with her dads gf for a week and I swear to god if she was here I would've busted her ass!! Idk wth she's thinking! This girl is a top honor student she says yes ma'am no ma'am as a matter of fact she is what u would call "dream child" I'm more in SHOCK than anything else! I offer allowance ONLY because she does so much without us even asking she has dinner ready when we come home from work and is generally the best kid.. When she did this I come unglued! Her dad is bringing her back this morning because I have my baby shower today.. He lives 6 hours away.. I'll post screen shots of what she messaged me. Below, it all started with staying with her dad for a week starting this Sunday @laciemarie

@sherrynygirl @mari_c

First of all I don't even know her friend to say if I like her or not, second of all its because she has to take me to my doctors appointments this week .. Her telling me with an attitude assuming it was because of her friend and she's gonna do as she damn well pleases is gonna get her an ass whoopin

She sounds like someone was filling her head with stuff. If shes normally like that then it sounds like her dads girlfriend has a big role and influenceing her to say stuff

Its definitely not the gf me and her are friends , she dont even cuss and is real friendly I'm pretty sure its my daughters bff where she getting the attitude from.. She lives 6 hours away.. She's been in trouble before but my x says she's a good kid , (he's a chief of police) idk man

@laciemarie

@mrs.collins, also and now that I think of it I rebelled at this age idk how to deal with it but I soon got pregnant afterwards and dropped out but that wasn't due to rebelling the father of my first child put a gun to my head while I was 14 weeks pregnant and told me to drop out or he kills me but he however was the product of my rebellion I was 18 he was 33

Man I rebelled bad myself back in the day , so when she does this I instantly react and put her in check I don't want her to end up the way I did at 16