Why is it that other females go down on the ones that are not attending college? My friend that got abused by her bf…

Why is it that other females go down on the ones that are not attending college? My friend that got abused by her bf told me last year " are you attending college?" I told her no she was like thats not excuse... well shes actually lucky to live with her mom , doesnt pay rent, doesn't have bills to pay and of course her mom doesn't charge her for babysitting.. I have alot on my plate if i didnt have shit to pay and still living with parents of course i would've been attending college but down the road I'll prove her wrong & everyone