So not use to a man being round during pregnancy it stresses me 😢....

Why? If he is supportive it should be a good thing. I been married for 3 yrs n we have 1 child n one on the way n it's different but having him around not stressing me during this time is very refreshing considering my first two kids dad. I don't understand why you would be stressed bc he is around unless he not supportive

Hubby understand my physically n emotional changes I might go thru n TRY to be as supportive as he can. Relax in take advantage of having him around. Ask for your cravings n kick your feet up

@saniyyahhasan I'm use to my mom being there... She was there when I was pregnant an when I had my 3girls I was also staying with her... An not n the house with there dads.... An this guy I'm pregnant by now he been round the whole 9mths.... We argued an everything im not use to it... Then I'm pregnant with my 1st boy n 1st child... I have had aniexty an depression this whole 9mths on an off...

@saniyyahhasan what was urs

My first child...her dad stressed me out bc he was controlling the whole relationship b was on drugs n eventually left me later after my girl was about 4ish....My son dad stressed me out bc he was physically abusive to me for 3 yrs even during my pregnancy n eventually I left him when my son was 2 months. My last youngest daughter is by my hubby n he is the total opposite of my first two pregnancies. He is very attentive n supportive n really sincerely loves me n cares our whole relationship. I was amazed n had to get use to being with someone like him but now after 3 yrs of marriage I am relaxing n enjoying this pregnancy just as much as I did my last one. Sure we get into disagreements but he know it's bc I'm too emotional n hormonal n he back off n not speak to me for a while. But he always give in n give me peace offering

This is only temporary enjoy your pregnancy n relax. Do things for yourself n more like I do. I don't rush to do anything. I just go at my own pace n ask him to do more like change diapers n make store runs lol n reward him with sex for he help(he don't know that part lol) but it works

Men like to feel needed n they like to please the woman they love. They like to see their woman to smile(sometimes I fake a smile to get things done from him). They like to see you approve of what they do for you. So relax smile start cool around him n a day or so start asking nicely for small things from him n see what happens. My hubby pisses me off allot but I don't show it I just keep cool n ask him in a pleasant voice for something even even I really don't want or need it. Lol you get more honey with sugar instead of water. I talk crazy to him in my head but he won't even know I'm pissed off.

@saniyyahhasan I can't find that n me to do things that I like... To clean to do nothin... All I do is sit round wonder bout everything an cry.... I'm use yo being round my mom when I'm pregnant...😭... 24 with 3girls an a boy otw... I'm 39wks...

I even cried wen I found out I was pregnant... I/we... Was jus gettn my youngest out of pull ups... She 3 now then come to find out im pregnant...every since then I've been shook up...

This is only temporary enjoy it. You have a person there who is there for you n he is apart of your kids lives. Take some time to relax n TRY to make him apart of your pregnancy. Talk to him about what's going on with you. He may can make things easy for you .

I'm use to men commin round an leaving me not staying round like he have my whole pregnancy I said he was doin something wen he left here an that he was talkn to sumbody else... I'm not use to it... With my other 2 babydaddies I wasn't always around then it was mama alwayS there... Now she's telln me I need to be a woman...I'm the only one with kids out her 7 an I'm the 3rd oldest... He's the 1st boy an only boy on his mom side besides his cousins...

You never know it may take a big burden off your shoulders. N plus your other kids needs their mom to be happier bc they feel what you feel even your unborn child. Stressing too much is not good for anyone. Take a long warm shower n relax reset n talk to him tell him what's going on

@saniyyahhasan I don't kno how to jus let things out to ppl...specially not him...

Try it...He is your partner remember? He the one who clearly loves you. Why not let him in? He might help pick you up like he suppose to

@saniyyahhasan 😢

I have two baby daddies n been a single mom twice n it took a lot in me to come out a deep depression after my abusive relationship with my son's dad but I did it alone. I did it for the sake of my kids. I took a year fit myself then another year I met my hubby. When I married him I felt I have the responsibility to tell him how I'm feeling especially now that I had n having his child. You n him is a partnership not just you anymore. He should be able to confide in you n vice versa

@saniyyahhasan how did u come out ur dp... What did u do... I even have aniexty bout everything...

One thing my hubby told me when we first got married was "we suppose to grow together n become best friends" he told me that when I told him I'm not sure how to be a wife bc of my past relationships. And what he said is so true. You suppose to grow n become best friends with your partner. That means you have to be open with what makes you you. Sharing feelings concerns n go thru ups n downs together that what make the both of you stronger as a couple

I took baby steps. I became active in my place of worship n quit smoking n drinking n became focus on myself n my kids I was single then

@saniyyahhasan thru this whole pregnancy we argued because of me not being happy...depressed..an aniexty... An because I'm pregnant in a new environment an not being with mama made it worst...I'm 39wks today an I'm so nervous about having a boy... And the name i was talking bout givng him if I ever had a boy... My bd said that name cone to his head to... That even freaks me out

Relax the pregnancy is almost over. Give things a chance. Sometimes things happen for a good reason. You're letting you hormones get the best of you. Try what I said n calm down to let things happen. Your pregnancy is almost over enjoy it. I promise if you give what I say a try you will be happier. That your goal right? Take a good warm shower relax and reset your self. Sometimes wet have to stop wanting to control our feelings n just let God be in control. Just calm down

@saniyyahhasan ill try

I haven't been happy this Wholed pregnancy

Well it don't hurt to try to be happy for a change. You don't want your bf to resent you for making his experience with you miserable. Fake it if you have to then you will become use to being happy for real

@saniyyahhasan also during this whole pregnancy he's been working an I'm not use to being in no house by myself with my kids... I'm use to someone being round like my mom...then I thought this would've probably been a girl but everybody kept saying it was a boy an they was right every time sumbody said sumthin bout a boy I wonted to cry an got nervous...

http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/ss/slideshow-natural-manage-anxiety?ecd=wnl_spr_060817&ctr=wnl-spr-060817_nsl-ld-stry_1&mb=mdZj3HhKiVech2USYolURtDN2UKEpwmpGvtFEbC3ILs%3d

Hopefully this site could help you

I worked since I was 16 yrs old till I got married n became a housewife. Which yes it was an adjustment but heck I become to love it. I run the house as I please. You should go with the flow stop feeling sad n down. .

And look at the good side of things. You have a partner who loves you, you have a supportive mom, you have beautiful kids and one on the way, n have support here, you have your health n they have theirs. God put you in a good position to be happy n thankful for what you have. Some moms don't have what you do they are in alot worse position.