So I'm 23 about to be 24, I'm trying to get pregnant with my first after loss so my rainbow baby, I…

So I'm 23 about to be 24, I'm trying to get pregnant with my first after loss so my rainbow baby, I am currently 188.9 lbs and I'm 5"3. Of course I have pcos, so I need motivation, tips and advice from those already having a baby. Did anyone do it naturally or with metformin? If naturally what did y'all do with your life style changes? And with metformin what did you do as well?. I am on metformin BUT I want to try and forget about the pills and get my body regulated and healthy naturally how do I do that?, anyone with mental health and did anything to stable their mental state? I need some pointers......

I really don't want to talk to my doctors so please not suggesting that.